"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Being sexy, as a men.

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We can figure out the image of a sexy women, but how could we figure out the image of a sexy men?
Which is the image of a sexy men for a women?

This is a hard thing to do for an hetero men, because in our imagination we don't have a sexy men, but a women instead.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's not really that hard.

Ever been on a beach when a guy with a nice body and six pack abs walks by and all the women almost break their necks turning their head to look at him?
 

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I think it's a big difference if you are talking about famous persons or the ones that women know in person. Famous persons are mysterious by default and you can project whatever you want into them. Or they find some actor sexy because of a role he played.

Real persons don't play roles and you can't project that much. Attitude, thus, becomes probably the most decisive factor.
 

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Attitude, thus, becomes probably the most decisive factor.
Do you mean men attitude towards? I've commentend something interesting here . I never felt envy, but Instead I desire to achieve this skill He has. What skill name, and how we can achieve it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think it's a big difference if you are talking about famous persons or the ones that women know in person. Famous persons are mysterious by default and you can project whatever you want into them. Or they find some actor sexy because of a role he played.

Real persons don't play roles and you can't project that much. Attitude, thus, becomes probably the most decisive factor.
After a woman knows you for a while, sure. But when they don't know anything about you, your looks are what the differentiating factor is at that point.
 
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