“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Being led on?

IBreatheSpears

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So, a week ago I made a thread about this girl I met on Tinder who I thought was wasting my time and impulsively unfriended her on facebook immediately before receiving a message that she was free on the weekend (that would've been this weekend). Anyway so I pretended like nothing had happened and suggested meeting up this Saturday (yesterday) but she didn't get back to me. On Friday I deleted my Tinder and created it again so that I could go back through, and I matched with her prompting this conversation:

http://imgur.com/Y4HOgo8

I replied "so you just like me for my looks? ;)" and she hasn't replied.

Is she just playing me for attention, throwing me a "you're good looking" bone to keep me at her beck-and-call, or might she actually be willing to meet up?

I'm going to be in her area on Saturday morning (meeting up with a different girl on Friday and I'll probably sleep there ;)). Should I call her on the day (maintaining NC in the mean time) and say "I'm in X area, what are you up to?" or just NEXT her and forget it? I suppose it can't hurt to try -- if she says no then it wasn't gonna happen anyway I'll just calmly say "Okay. Delete my number please. Bye." and hang up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yo'Mama

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Maybe I'm becoming old and cynical but I just can't deal with this anymore. I know guys are supposed to chase but I just don't want to put up with these female games, they're so childish and irritating. Sure, give it one more go, there's nothing to lose but realise it's unlikely anything will come of this.
 

IBreatheSpears

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Yeah, it is irritating. There are lots of girls like that on Tinder and I usually use them as Game practice. The other girl I'm seeing is quite sweet, barely a hint of a shít-test or anything from her and she's not even unattractive, but I think she's a little loose, physically and metaphorically. This one is an 8 which would be the hottest I've scored so far and we have a quite a bit in common which is why I still want to meet her. And I think she's rich so I can get her to buy me drinks ;) Anyway, yeah, I'll see what she says on Saturday after 8-9 days of NC.
 

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Do girls like that actually want to get laid? I'm guessing the answer is "yes -- but not by you"? How do you Game them? Most of you will probably say not to bother but I'm curious, and if I meet another one maybe the old pump-n-dump would put her back in her place. IIRC in this case I opened with a neg but I think tried too hard to entertain her and made myself appear overeager (which, tbh, I was because I've not been with a girl quite as attractive as her thus far) when I should have been more aloof.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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