“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Being led on?

IBreatheSpears

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So, a week ago I made a thread about this girl I met on Tinder who I thought was wasting my time and impulsively unfriended her on facebook immediately before receiving a message that she was free on the weekend (that would've been this weekend). Anyway so I pretended like nothing had happened and suggested meeting up this Saturday (yesterday) but she didn't get back to me. On Friday I deleted my Tinder and created it again so that I could go back through, and I matched with her prompting this conversation:

http://imgur.com/Y4HOgo8

I replied "so you just like me for my looks? ;)" and she hasn't replied.

Is she just playing me for attention, throwing me a "you're good looking" bone to keep me at her beck-and-call, or might she actually be willing to meet up?

I'm going to be in her area on Saturday morning (meeting up with a different girl on Friday and I'll probably sleep there ;)). Should I call her on the day (maintaining NC in the mean time) and say "I'm in X area, what are you up to?" or just NEXT her and forget it? I suppose it can't hurt to try -- if she says no then it wasn't gonna happen anyway I'll just calmly say "Okay. Delete my number please. Bye." and hang up.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yo'Mama

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Maybe I'm becoming old and cynical but I just can't deal with this anymore. I know guys are supposed to chase but I just don't want to put up with these female games, they're so childish and irritating. Sure, give it one more go, there's nothing to lose but realise it's unlikely anything will come of this.
 

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Yeah, it is irritating. There are lots of girls like that on Tinder and I usually use them as Game practice. The other girl I'm seeing is quite sweet, barely a hint of a shít-test or anything from her and she's not even unattractive, but I think she's a little loose, physically and metaphorically. This one is an 8 which would be the hottest I've scored so far and we have a quite a bit in common which is why I still want to meet her. And I think she's rich so I can get her to buy me drinks ;) Anyway, yeah, I'll see what she says on Saturday after 8-9 days of NC.
 

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Do girls like that actually want to get laid? I'm guessing the answer is "yes -- but not by you"? How do you Game them? Most of you will probably say not to bother but I'm curious, and if I meet another one maybe the old pump-n-dump would put her back in her place. IIRC in this case I opened with a neg but I think tried too hard to entertain her and made myself appear overeager (which, tbh, I was because I've not been with a girl quite as attractive as her thus far) when I should have been more aloof.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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