“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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IBreatheSpears

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So, a week ago I made a thread about this girl I met on Tinder who I thought was wasting my time and impulsively unfriended her on facebook immediately before receiving a message that she was free on the weekend (that would've been this weekend). Anyway so I pretended like nothing had happened and suggested meeting up this Saturday (yesterday) but she didn't get back to me. On Friday I deleted my Tinder and created it again so that I could go back through, and I matched with her prompting this conversation:

http://imgur.com/Y4HOgo8

I replied "so you just like me for my looks? ;)" and she hasn't replied.

Is she just playing me for attention, throwing me a "you're good looking" bone to keep me at her beck-and-call, or might she actually be willing to meet up?

I'm going to be in her area on Saturday morning (meeting up with a different girl on Friday and I'll probably sleep there ;)). Should I call her on the day (maintaining NC in the mean time) and say "I'm in X area, what are you up to?" or just NEXT her and forget it? I suppose it can't hurt to try -- if she says no then it wasn't gonna happen anyway I'll just calmly say "Okay. Delete my number please. Bye." and hang up.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Maybe I'm becoming old and cynical but I just can't deal with this anymore. I know guys are supposed to chase but I just don't want to put up with these female games, they're so childish and irritating. Sure, give it one more go, there's nothing to lose but realise it's unlikely anything will come of this.
 
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Yeah, it is irritating. There are lots of girls like that on Tinder and I usually use them as Game practice. The other girl I'm seeing is quite sweet, barely a hint of a shít-test or anything from her and she's not even unattractive, but I think she's a little loose, physically and metaphorically. This one is an 8 which would be the hottest I've scored so far and we have a quite a bit in common which is why I still want to meet her. And I think she's rich so I can get her to buy me drinks ;) Anyway, yeah, I'll see what she says on Saturday after 8-9 days of NC.
 
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Do girls like that actually want to get laid? I'm guessing the answer is "yes -- but not by you"? How do you Game them? Most of you will probably say not to bother but I'm curious, and if I meet another one maybe the old pump-n-dump would put her back in her place. IIRC in this case I opened with a neg but I think tried too hard to entertain her and made myself appear overeager (which, tbh, I was because I've not been with a girl quite as attractive as her thus far) when I should have been more aloof.
 
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