Being called 'weird'

[illmatic1005]

When ur gf, and basically every other girl, calls u weird..can this be a good thing?

im not talking about weird..like creepy, freaky, nerdy or anything like that...

talking about weird like doing random funny stuff, a lot of jokes, and funny stuff no one would ever think about, and being called 'random'

some girls tell me. 'it must be fun doing out with u..u make verything fun and and never predictable."

and i hear my gf just say "ur so weird..y r u so weird"
occasionally she would say "ur so weird, but i love it"

is this good or bad?

 

[Mr. Wolf]

Good! The only bad thing is that you have to ask.

 

[ematsuda]

Hopefully that's a good thing. I get that all the time. They basically say that because I act aloof when we are at "hang out" places and somewhat aggressive when we're alone with each other. I like cracking stupid jokes too - jokes the average guy don't have the balls to tell. Basically, I make her laugh and act as if I don't care what she thinks of me. That's when they say it.

 

[DonJuan11]

some girls tell me. 'it must be fun doing out with u..u make verything fun and and never predictable."

and i hear my gf just say "ur so weird..y r u so weird"
occasionally she would say "ur so weird, but i love it"

is this good or bad?

What does "doing out with you" mean?

"you make everything fun and never predictable" is good
"you are so weird, why are you so weird" is bad.

 

[illmatic1005]

What does "doing out with you" mean?

"you make everything fun and never predictable" is good
"you are so weird, why are you so weird" is bad.

i meant to say going out with you...

y is 'u are so weird bad??

 

[DonJuan11]

y is 'u are so weird bad??

If I was in love with a girl I wanted to sleep with, I wouldn't call her weird. I would tell her she is like no other girl I've met before and the most beautiful girl I've ever seen.

A girl calling you weird doesn't sound like she's in love with you.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Aren't we all a little weird in some way?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Aren't we all a little weird in some way?

Only if you're not boring. Weird takes effort, not everyone can handle that level of status though.

 

[LivA]

Weird is SOOOOO not a bad thing!!! Just intrepret it as uniquie. Normal people suck!! :moon:

 

[smooth guy]

weird = different = standing out from being 'just another guy'.

 

[Alphamale1821]

it's a good thing if it's a unique weirdness. Heres a good example her: "Chuk your weird" Me: "what can i say i love being weird". Her: "you should your good at it"(smile's) and proceeds to grab my arm as we go to lunch.

In this sense weird is unique not the creepy, weirdo. This is a good thing OP soak it up and use it for you advantage.

 

[LostAndConfused]

You can DEFINITELY tell if a girl means that you are weird in a BAD way. If she meant it in a bad way, thats DEFINITELY the conversation ender, and she would DEFINITELY show negative IOIs.