"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Being called 'weird'

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When ur gf, and basically every other girl, calls u weird..can this be a good thing?

im not talking about weird..like creepy, freaky, nerdy or anything like that...

talking about weird like doing random funny stuff, a lot of jokes, and funny stuff no one would ever think about, and being called 'random'

some girls tell me. 'it must be fun doing out with u..u make verything fun and and never predictable."

and i hear my gf just say "ur so weird..y r u so weird"
occasionally she would say "ur so weird, but i love it"

is this good or bad?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hopefully that's a good thing. I get that all the time. They basically say that because I act aloof when we are at "hang out" places and somewhat aggressive when we're alone with each other. I like cracking stupid jokes too - jokes the average guy don't have the balls to tell. Basically, I make her laugh and act as if I don't care what she thinks of me. That's when they say it.
 
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illmatic1005 said:
some girls tell me. 'it must be fun doing out with u..u make verything fun and and never predictable."

and i hear my gf just say "ur so weird..y r u so weird"
occasionally she would say "ur so weird, but i love it"

is this good or bad?
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What does "doing out with you" mean?

"you make everything fun and never predictable" is good
"you are so weird, why are you so weird" is bad.
 
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DonJuan11 said:
What does "doing out with you" mean?

"you make everything fun and never predictable" is good
"you are so weird, why are you so weird" is bad.
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i meant to say going out with you...

y is 'u are so weird bad??
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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illmatic1005 said:
y is 'u are so weird bad??
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If I was in love with a girl I wanted to sleep with, I wouldn't call her weird. I would tell her she is like no other girl I've met before and the most beautiful girl I've ever seen.

A girl calling you weird doesn't sound like she's in love with you.
 
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Aren't we all a little weird in some way?
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Aren't we all a little weird in some way?
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Only if you're not boring. Weird takes effort, not everyone can handle that level of status though.
 
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Weird is SOOOOO not a bad thing!!! Just intrepret it as uniquie. :D Normal people suck!! :moon: :down:
 
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weird = different = standing out from being 'just another guy'.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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it's a good thing if it's a unique weirdness. Heres a good example her: "Chuk your weird" Me: "what can i say i love being weird". Her: "you should your good at it"(smile's) and proceeds to grab my arm as we go to lunch.

In this sense weird is unique not the creepy, weirdo. This is a good thing OP soak it up and use it for you advantage.
 
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You can DEFINITELY tell if a girl means that you are weird in a BAD way. If she meant it in a bad way, thats DEFINITELY the conversation ender, and she would DEFINITELY show negative IOIs.
 
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