"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When ur gf, and basically every other girl, calls u weird..can this be a good thing?

im not talking about weird..like creepy, freaky, nerdy or anything like that...

talking about weird like doing random funny stuff, a lot of jokes, and funny stuff no one would ever think about, and being called 'random'

some girls tell me. 'it must be fun doing out with u..u make verything fun and and never predictable."

and i hear my gf just say "ur so weird..y r u so weird"
occasionally she would say "ur so weird, but i love it"

is this good or bad?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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Hopefully that's a good thing. I get that all the time. They basically say that because I act aloof when we are at "hang out" places and somewhat aggressive when we're alone with each other. I like cracking stupid jokes too - jokes the average guy don't have the balls to tell. Basically, I make her laugh and act as if I don't care what she thinks of me. That's when they say it.
 
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illmatic1005 said:
some girls tell me. 'it must be fun doing out with u..u make verything fun and and never predictable."

and i hear my gf just say "ur so weird..y r u so weird"
occasionally she would say "ur so weird, but i love it"

is this good or bad?
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What does "doing out with you" mean?

"you make everything fun and never predictable" is good
"you are so weird, why are you so weird" is bad.
 
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DonJuan11 said:
What does "doing out with you" mean?

"you make everything fun and never predictable" is good
"you are so weird, why are you so weird" is bad.
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i meant to say going out with you...

y is 'u are so weird bad??
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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illmatic1005 said:
y is 'u are so weird bad??
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If I was in love with a girl I wanted to sleep with, I wouldn't call her weird. I would tell her she is like no other girl I've met before and the most beautiful girl I've ever seen.

A girl calling you weird doesn't sound like she's in love with you.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Aren't we all a little weird in some way?
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Aren't we all a little weird in some way?
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Only if you're not boring. Weird takes effort, not everyone can handle that level of status though.
 
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Weird is SOOOOO not a bad thing!!! Just intrepret it as uniquie. :D Normal people suck!! :moon: :down:
 
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weird = different = standing out from being 'just another guy'.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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it's a good thing if it's a unique weirdness. Heres a good example her: "Chuk your weird" Me: "what can i say i love being weird". Her: "you should your good at it"(smile's) and proceeds to grab my arm as we go to lunch.

In this sense weird is unique not the creepy, weirdo. This is a good thing OP soak it up and use it for you advantage.
 
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You can DEFINITELY tell if a girl means that you are weird in a BAD way. If she meant it in a bad way, thats DEFINITELY the conversation ender, and she would DEFINITELY show negative IOIs.
 
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