"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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2bAlpha

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only been seeing this chick for 3 weeks, but past 2 times we banged, she called me 'daddy' while in bed. not sure if i'm really into this chick yet or not, but does anyone have any REAL psycological articles or read any about why a woman would say this? I kinda like it, I don't mind it whatever gets her off ya know. Please don't be retarded, I'm really curious about this. thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Prodigy746

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Honestly i would feel that to be a BIG turnoff for me. Not sure why they do it but as a bf/husband i dont want to be seen as her daddy. Its so weird to me.
 

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In a relationship you have to be a little bit her "father" and she has to be a little bit your "mother". That´s normal. But some girls have extraordinary strong emotions toward their father. Maybe your chick is one of these girls and your role as her "father" is a bit stronger than in general.

Is her father still alive? Because this gets stronger when her father dies.
 

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I think that would put me right off. I prefer master and slave girl, anything bordering on family just sends a shiver down my spine.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kal0051

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lol, maybe she's got daddy issues. Next time she calls you daddy, spank her ass and call her a bad girl, lol. But yeah, I can see that being a bit weird.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kal0051

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Bible_Belt said:
Every woman has daddy issues. Especially the fun women.
explains all the hot girls dating guys 15-20 years older than them. Lol, damn those old dirty bastards :trouble:
 

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it probably would be for me too.

if you don't like it, tell her to call you master instead hahaha
 

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her dad is still alive, but now I remember on our first date telling me that she has 2 father figures in her life, so I'm convinced its a dominance thing she likes. she only says it in bed. when she comes over next, i'm going to slap her ass as hard as possible and call her bad girl or something, let you guys know how it goes.I'm all for it, I'm thinking that she is just into rough sex. In all, I think its pretty hot when she says it, just dunno what to do/say when she is saying it to please her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I usually force whoever I am having sex with to call me daddy, master, etc over time. It doesn't mean I look down on her in any way, just that we are playing extreme masculine and extreme feminine roles. And that's the best kind of sex.

So if she is calling you daddy, she is opening up her extreme feminine side. You should reciprocate by opening up your extreme masculine side and be all like "you like being ****ed by daddy, don't you? ****ing take it all my little girl."

She will love it, and so will you.
 

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Never "little girl". That's creepy. Babygirl, said with some dominance is where it's at.
 

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DJDamage said:
I used "good girl" once before and it didn't work out for me either.
lol, "good girl"? I find that "bad girl" works better
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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