only been seeing this chick for 3 weeks, but past 2 times we banged, she called me 'daddy' while in bed. not sure if i'm really into this chick yet or not, but does anyone have any REAL psycological articles or read any about why a woman would say this? I kinda like it, I don't mind it whatever gets her off ya know. Please don't be retarded, I'm really curious about this. thanks
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
being called daddy
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Honestly i would feel that to be a BIG turnoff for me. Not sure why they do it but as a bf/husband i dont want to be seen as her daddy. Its so weird to me.
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In a relationship you have to be a little bit her "father" and she has to be a little bit your "mother". That´s normal. But some girls have extraordinary strong emotions toward their father. Maybe your chick is one of these girls and your role as her "father" is a bit stronger than in general.
Is her father still alive? Because this gets stronger when her father dies.
Is her father still alive? Because this gets stronger when her father dies.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Explore it.... Sounds like time for a little fun role playing.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
playerone
Senior Don Juan
Relax, maybe she's just being playful and saying it to tune up the sex.
Does she call you daddy normally, when you're not having sex?
Does she call you daddy normally, when you're not having sex?
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
This. ^ Should be fun.Kal0051 said:
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Every woman has daddy issues. Especially the fun women.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Daddy's gonna make you feel alright tonight!
her dad is still alive, but now I remember on our first date telling me that she has 2 father figures in her life, so I'm convinced its a dominance thing she likes. she only says it in bed. when she comes over next, i'm going to slap her ass as hard as possible and call her bad girl or something, let you guys know how it goes.I'm all for it, I'm thinking that she is just into rough sex. In all, I think its pretty hot when she says it, just dunno what to do/say when she is saying it to please her.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I usually force whoever I am having sex with to call me daddy, master, etc over time. It doesn't mean I look down on her in any way, just that we are playing extreme masculine and extreme feminine roles. And that's the best kind of sex.
So if she is calling you daddy, she is opening up her extreme feminine side. You should reciprocate by opening up your extreme masculine side and be all like "you like being ****ed by daddy, don't you? ****ing take it all my little girl."
She will love it, and so will you.
So if she is calling you daddy, she is opening up her extreme feminine side. You should reciprocate by opening up your extreme masculine side and be all like "you like being ****ed by daddy, don't you? ****ing take it all my little girl."
She will love it, and so will you.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.