"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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being called daddy

2bAlpha

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only been seeing this chick for 3 weeks, but past 2 times we banged, she called me 'daddy' while in bed. not sure if i'm really into this chick yet or not, but does anyone have any REAL psycological articles or read any about why a woman would say this? I kinda like it, I don't mind it whatever gets her off ya know. Please don't be retarded, I'm really curious about this. thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Prodigy746

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Honestly i would feel that to be a BIG turnoff for me. Not sure why they do it but as a bf/husband i dont want to be seen as her daddy. Its so weird to me.
 

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In a relationship you have to be a little bit her "father" and she has to be a little bit your "mother". That´s normal. But some girls have extraordinary strong emotions toward their father. Maybe your chick is one of these girls and your role as her "father" is a bit stronger than in general.

Is her father still alive? Because this gets stronger when her father dies.
 

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I think that would put me right off. I prefer master and slave girl, anything bordering on family just sends a shiver down my spine.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kal0051

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lol, maybe she's got daddy issues. Next time she calls you daddy, spank her ass and call her a bad girl, lol. But yeah, I can see that being a bit weird.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kal0051

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Bible_Belt said:
Every woman has daddy issues. Especially the fun women.
explains all the hot girls dating guys 15-20 years older than them. Lol, damn those old dirty bastards :trouble:
 

marinetti

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it probably would be for me too.

if you don't like it, tell her to call you master instead hahaha
 

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her dad is still alive, but now I remember on our first date telling me that she has 2 father figures in her life, so I'm convinced its a dominance thing she likes. she only says it in bed. when she comes over next, i'm going to slap her ass as hard as possible and call her bad girl or something, let you guys know how it goes.I'm all for it, I'm thinking that she is just into rough sex. In all, I think its pretty hot when she says it, just dunno what to do/say when she is saying it to please her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I usually force whoever I am having sex with to call me daddy, master, etc over time. It doesn't mean I look down on her in any way, just that we are playing extreme masculine and extreme feminine roles. And that's the best kind of sex.

So if she is calling you daddy, she is opening up her extreme feminine side. You should reciprocate by opening up your extreme masculine side and be all like "you like being ****ed by daddy, don't you? ****ing take it all my little girl."

She will love it, and so will you.
 

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Never "little girl". That's creepy. Babygirl, said with some dominance is where it's at.
 

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DJDamage said:
I used "good girl" once before and it didn't work out for me either.
lol, "good girl"? I find that "bad girl" works better
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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