I just turned 15, and thanks to this site my game has improved a ton. Now when I'm talking to girls I'll make a joke and the girl will go "Your too cute" or something like that. Usually I play it off in a C&F way like "pssh, yeah I know". Is this a sign of interest? Are they comparing me to a little kid (AKA someone they wouldn't go out with)?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Being called cute
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
bob88
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What about when they say "you're so cute"?
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I'd be sitting layin with my girlfriend and I'd look over and she'd be lookin at me and I'd be like "what?" and she'd say "you just look really cute right now" From there we move to the bedroom. It all just depends. Some girls like having "cute" friends and "hot" or "sexy" boyfriends ..
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I would just wink and tickle them by poking their sides.
Different girls have different ways of describing guys they have the hots for.
Being called cute isn't a bad thing in my book...just as long as the girl doesn't go "You're really nice"
I am out to get my numbers quota for the night.
Different girls have different ways of describing guys they have the hots for.
Being called cute isn't a bad thing in my book...just as long as the girl doesn't go "You're really nice"
I am out to get my numbers quota for the night.
bob88
Don Juan
I have some female friends that think "hot" guys are just like "oh I'd make out with them" and "cute" guys to be "boyfriend material".
Craig Reeves
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lol.
Holy ****, some bad advice right here in this thread.
What's one of the top rules about women: Listen to their actions not their words! Seriously man, girls have called me cute and they will be sneaking me in to their house that night.
What they say is neither hear nor there. The only words i listen to from a girls mouth are "No".
Honestly, you should be looking at other IOI's, like how does she look at your, how does her body language act when shes around you, and the best of all, wether or not she kissed you when you tried, that's a good one (almost 100% success rate).
Seriously, dont tell the guy to change his life because he got called 'cute'. Because we all know that the REAL man acts on whatever a woman says to them.
Comeon guys, think about what your teaching the newer guys.
What's one of the top rules about women: Listen to their actions not their words! Seriously man, girls have called me cute and they will be sneaking me in to their house that night.
What they say is neither hear nor there. The only words i listen to from a girls mouth are "No".
Honestly, you should be looking at other IOI's, like how does she look at your, how does her body language act when shes around you, and the best of all, wether or not she kissed you when you tried, that's a good one (almost 100% success rate).
Seriously, dont tell the guy to change his life because he got called 'cute'. Because we all know that the REAL man acts on whatever a woman says to them.
Comeon guys, think about what your teaching the newer guys.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Forget signs of interest. Read the signs of disinterest thread recently started around here. And no, being cute is not a sign of disinterest.
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being cute is good?it justs boosts your confidence even more when ur constantly being called cute
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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i remember being labeled "cute," now i'm considered "hot"... haha... it wasn't till after i let my lil mustache grow and started working out and being an ******* sometimes that they started calling me "hot"
You don't have a very positive attitude. Read weapons of mass seduction by seniorfingers. It is a PDF in the bible. I am currently trying to read it. I mean it is only 95 pages. Lot's of useful stuff for a beginer.
I don't know what to say because there is this one cute guy in my class (I am not gay. He is one of my best friends, but he was really small and all the girls just wanted to hug him.) But he got some from from this HB10 that was bigger then him.
If you can bench over 300 then you must not be "Cute and cuddly" So they must think you are hot. You just didn't play it right. I also don't recomend being a jerk at all.
I don't know what to say because there is this one cute guy in my class (I am not gay. He is one of my best friends, but he was really small and all the girls just wanted to hug him.) But he got some from from this HB10 that was bigger then him.
If you can bench over 300 then you must not be "Cute and cuddly" So they must think you are hot. You just didn't play it right. I also don't recomend being a jerk at all.