I just turned 15, and thanks to this site my game has improved a ton. Now when I'm talking to girls I'll make a joke and the girl will go "Your too cute" or something like that. Usually I play it off in a C&F way like "pssh, yeah I know". Is this a sign of interest? Are they comparing me to a little kid (AKA someone they wouldn't go out with)?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Being called cute
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
bob88
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What about when they say "you're so cute"?
Testify
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I'd be sitting layin with my girlfriend and I'd look over and she'd be lookin at me and I'd be like "what?" and she'd say "you just look really cute right now" From there we move to the bedroom. It all just depends. Some girls like having "cute" friends and "hot" or "sexy" boyfriends ..
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I would just wink and tickle them by poking their sides.
Different girls have different ways of describing guys they have the hots for.
Being called cute isn't a bad thing in my book...just as long as the girl doesn't go "You're really nice"
I am out to get my numbers quota for the night.
Different girls have different ways of describing guys they have the hots for.
Being called cute isn't a bad thing in my book...just as long as the girl doesn't go "You're really nice"
I am out to get my numbers quota for the night.
bob88
Don Juan
I have some female friends that think "hot" guys are just like "oh I'd make out with them" and "cute" guys to be "boyfriend material".
Craig Reeves
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lol.
Holy ****, some bad advice right here in this thread.
What's one of the top rules about women: Listen to their actions not their words! Seriously man, girls have called me cute and they will be sneaking me in to their house that night.
What they say is neither hear nor there. The only words i listen to from a girls mouth are "No".
Honestly, you should be looking at other IOI's, like how does she look at your, how does her body language act when shes around you, and the best of all, wether or not she kissed you when you tried, that's a good one (almost 100% success rate).
Seriously, dont tell the guy to change his life because he got called 'cute'. Because we all know that the REAL man acts on whatever a woman says to them.
Comeon guys, think about what your teaching the newer guys.
What's one of the top rules about women: Listen to their actions not their words! Seriously man, girls have called me cute and they will be sneaking me in to their house that night.
What they say is neither hear nor there. The only words i listen to from a girls mouth are "No".
Honestly, you should be looking at other IOI's, like how does she look at your, how does her body language act when shes around you, and the best of all, wether or not she kissed you when you tried, that's a good one (almost 100% success rate).
Seriously, dont tell the guy to change his life because he got called 'cute'. Because we all know that the REAL man acts on whatever a woman says to them.
Comeon guys, think about what your teaching the newer guys.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Forget signs of interest. Read the signs of disinterest thread recently started around here. And no, being cute is not a sign of disinterest.
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Don Juan
being cute is good?it justs boosts your confidence even more when ur constantly being called cute
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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i remember being labeled "cute," now i'm considered "hot"... haha... it wasn't till after i let my lil mustache grow and started working out and being an ******* sometimes that they started calling me "hot"
You don't have a very positive attitude. Read weapons of mass seduction by seniorfingers. It is a PDF in the bible. I am currently trying to read it. I mean it is only 95 pages. Lot's of useful stuff for a beginer.
I don't know what to say because there is this one cute guy in my class (I am not gay. He is one of my best friends, but he was really small and all the girls just wanted to hug him.) But he got some from from this HB10 that was bigger then him.
If you can bench over 300 then you must not be "Cute and cuddly" So they must think you are hot. You just didn't play it right. I also don't recomend being a jerk at all.
I don't know what to say because there is this one cute guy in my class (I am not gay. He is one of my best friends, but he was really small and all the girls just wanted to hug him.) But he got some from from this HB10 that was bigger then him.
If you can bench over 300 then you must not be "Cute and cuddly" So they must think you are hot. You just didn't play it right. I also don't recomend being a jerk at all.