I just turned 15, and thanks to this site my game has improved a ton. Now when I'm talking to girls I'll make a joke and the girl will go "Your too cute" or something like that. Usually I play it off in a C&F way like "pssh, yeah I know". Is this a sign of interest? Are they comparing me to a little kid (AKA someone they wouldn't go out with)?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Being called cute
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
bob88
Don Juan
What about when they say "you're so cute"?
Testify
Don Juan
I'd be sitting layin with my girlfriend and I'd look over and she'd be lookin at me and I'd be like "what?" and she'd say "you just look really cute right now" From there we move to the bedroom. It all just depends. Some girls like having "cute" friends and "hot" or "sexy" boyfriends ..
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I would just wink and tickle them by poking their sides.
Different girls have different ways of describing guys they have the hots for.
Being called cute isn't a bad thing in my book...just as long as the girl doesn't go "You're really nice"
I am out to get my numbers quota for the night.
Different girls have different ways of describing guys they have the hots for.
Being called cute isn't a bad thing in my book...just as long as the girl doesn't go "You're really nice"
I am out to get my numbers quota for the night.
bob88
Don Juan
I have some female friends that think "hot" guys are just like "oh I'd make out with them" and "cute" guys to be "boyfriend material".
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
lol.
Holy ****, some bad advice right here in this thread.
What's one of the top rules about women: Listen to their actions not their words! Seriously man, girls have called me cute and they will be sneaking me in to their house that night.
What they say is neither hear nor there. The only words i listen to from a girls mouth are "No".
Honestly, you should be looking at other IOI's, like how does she look at your, how does her body language act when shes around you, and the best of all, wether or not she kissed you when you tried, that's a good one (almost 100% success rate).
Seriously, dont tell the guy to change his life because he got called 'cute'. Because we all know that the REAL man acts on whatever a woman says to them.
Comeon guys, think about what your teaching the newer guys.
What's one of the top rules about women: Listen to their actions not their words! Seriously man, girls have called me cute and they will be sneaking me in to their house that night.
What they say is neither hear nor there. The only words i listen to from a girls mouth are "No".
Honestly, you should be looking at other IOI's, like how does she look at your, how does her body language act when shes around you, and the best of all, wether or not she kissed you when you tried, that's a good one (almost 100% success rate).
Seriously, dont tell the guy to change his life because he got called 'cute'. Because we all know that the REAL man acts on whatever a woman says to them.
Comeon guys, think about what your teaching the newer guys.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Forget signs of interest. Read the signs of disinterest thread recently started around here. And no, being cute is not a sign of disinterest.
So FLY
Don Juan
being cute is good?it justs boosts your confidence even more when ur constantly being called cute
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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i remember being labeled "cute," now i'm considered "hot"... haha... it wasn't till after i let my lil mustache grow and started working out and being an ******* sometimes that they started calling me "hot"
You don't have a very positive attitude. Read weapons of mass seduction by seniorfingers. It is a PDF in the bible. I am currently trying to read it. I mean it is only 95 pages. Lot's of useful stuff for a beginer.
I don't know what to say because there is this one cute guy in my class (I am not gay. He is one of my best friends, but he was really small and all the girls just wanted to hug him.) But he got some from from this HB10 that was bigger then him.
If you can bench over 300 then you must not be "Cute and cuddly" So they must think you are hot. You just didn't play it right. I also don't recomend being a jerk at all.
I don't know what to say because there is this one cute guy in my class (I am not gay. He is one of my best friends, but he was really small and all the girls just wanted to hug him.) But he got some from from this HB10 that was bigger then him.
If you can bench over 300 then you must not be "Cute and cuddly" So they must think you are hot. You just didn't play it right. I also don't recomend being a jerk at all.