I just turned 15, and thanks to this site my game has improved a ton. Now when I'm talking to girls I'll make a joke and the girl will go "Your too cute" or something like that. Usually I play it off in a C&F way like "pssh, yeah I know". Is this a sign of interest? Are they comparing me to a little kid (AKA someone they wouldn't go out with)?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
bob88
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What about when they say "you're so cute"?
Testify
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I'd be sitting layin with my girlfriend and I'd look over and she'd be lookin at me and I'd be like "what?" and she'd say "you just look really cute right now" From there we move to the bedroom. It all just depends. Some girls like having "cute" friends and "hot" or "sexy" boyfriends ..
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I would just wink and tickle them by poking their sides.
Different girls have different ways of describing guys they have the hots for.
Being called cute isn't a bad thing in my book...just as long as the girl doesn't go "You're really nice"
I am out to get my numbers quota for the night.
Different girls have different ways of describing guys they have the hots for.
Being called cute isn't a bad thing in my book...just as long as the girl doesn't go "You're really nice"
I am out to get my numbers quota for the night.
bob88
Don Juan
I have some female friends that think "hot" guys are just like "oh I'd make out with them" and "cute" guys to be "boyfriend material".
Craig Reeves
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lol.
Holy ****, some bad advice right here in this thread.
What's one of the top rules about women: Listen to their actions not their words! Seriously man, girls have called me cute and they will be sneaking me in to their house that night.
What they say is neither hear nor there. The only words i listen to from a girls mouth are "No".
Honestly, you should be looking at other IOI's, like how does she look at your, how does her body language act when shes around you, and the best of all, wether or not she kissed you when you tried, that's a good one (almost 100% success rate).
Seriously, dont tell the guy to change his life because he got called 'cute'. Because we all know that the REAL man acts on whatever a woman says to them.
Comeon guys, think about what your teaching the newer guys.
What's one of the top rules about women: Listen to their actions not their words! Seriously man, girls have called me cute and they will be sneaking me in to their house that night.
What they say is neither hear nor there. The only words i listen to from a girls mouth are "No".
Honestly, you should be looking at other IOI's, like how does she look at your, how does her body language act when shes around you, and the best of all, wether or not she kissed you when you tried, that's a good one (almost 100% success rate).
Seriously, dont tell the guy to change his life because he got called 'cute'. Because we all know that the REAL man acts on whatever a woman says to them.
Comeon guys, think about what your teaching the newer guys.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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MetalFortress
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Forget signs of interest. Read the signs of disinterest thread recently started around here. And no, being cute is not a sign of disinterest.
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being cute is good?it justs boosts your confidence even more when ur constantly being called cute
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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i remember being labeled "cute," now i'm considered "hot"... haha... it wasn't till after i let my lil mustache grow and started working out and being an ******* sometimes that they started calling me "hot"
You don't have a very positive attitude. Read weapons of mass seduction by seniorfingers. It is a PDF in the bible. I am currently trying to read it. I mean it is only 95 pages. Lot's of useful stuff for a beginer.
I don't know what to say because there is this one cute guy in my class (I am not gay. He is one of my best friends, but he was really small and all the girls just wanted to hug him.) But he got some from from this HB10 that was bigger then him.
If you can bench over 300 then you must not be "Cute and cuddly" So they must think you are hot. You just didn't play it right. I also don't recomend being a jerk at all.
I don't know what to say because there is this one cute guy in my class (I am not gay. He is one of my best friends, but he was really small and all the girls just wanted to hug him.) But he got some from from this HB10 that was bigger then him.
If you can bench over 300 then you must not be "Cute and cuddly" So they must think you are hot. You just didn't play it right. I also don't recomend being a jerk at all.