Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Behind the moderating: The True Story of crazykid

RockGuitarist

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Louisiana... dirty south. No, seriously, it's ****
Lorenzo... good kid. Haven't heard much from him lately. Anyone still around that knows where that old Don Juanizising bastard went off to?

F'uck, and about the temper ****... man, get a punching bag. S'hit, I used to punch walls... bad idea. I still have scars on my knuckles for doing that s'hit. Get something you can beat the s'hit out. You'll feel much better afterwards.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by RockGuitarist
Lorenzo... good kid. Haven't heard much from him lately. Anyone still around that knows where that old Don Juanizising bastard went off to?

F'uck, and about the temper ****... man, get a punching bag. S'hit, I used to punch walls... bad idea. I still have scars on my knuckles for doing that s'hit. Get something you can beat the s'hit out. You'll feel much better afterwards.
He pops onto AIM every so often. He says this site has gone downhill (which it really has at times.) Oh, and I am taking frustration out on weights now. :D Glad to see you back Bedford.
 

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Ahhhhh indeed.

Another post itching at me to achieve my full potential.
 

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bump it is a good post for newbies to read.
 

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nice story on how we sometimes need to change our lives

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thanks for sharing your story with us crazykid. That was painful. I've thought about telling my own story one day, when I am a DJ and I can say I have suceeded in becoming the best man I can be (which I hope will not be too far away). You give me inspiration that I can become who I want to be. I know it can be done. Thank you.
 
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