Before Sosuave and After Sosuave - Where do you stand?

[Cheat_LBJ]

Before: 1
After: 3

I've gotten much more comfortable talking with women. The bad news is, they still don't find me at all attractive.

 

[Climax]

Originally posted by Cheat_LBJ
Before: 1
After: 3

I've gotten much more comfortable talking with women. The bad news is, they still don't find me at all attractive.

Well then thats what u need to work on next... GO GET SOME STYLE


Laterz...

 

[Cheat_LBJ]

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Well then thats what u need to work on next... GO GET SOME STYLE


Laterz...

As tall as I am, the only kinda style that's gonna do me any good is an NBA Contract, and not even the Clippers are bad enough to need me.

Other than that, I'm at a loss as to how to make myself seem more "normal."

 

[Climax]

Here's an idea...

Originally posted by Cheat_LBJ
As tall as I am, the only kinda style that's gonna do me any good is an NBA Contract, and not even the Clippers are bad enough to need me.

Other than that, I'm at a loss as to how to make myself seem more "normal."

How about u post a pic of urself and get feedback/suggestions?


Laterz...

 

[Bonhomme]

Not entirely relevant, because I'd already learned a lot before starting to post here, but are just now starting to really internalize it.

Then: varying wildly from about 1 to 9; averaging about 4, only rarely at 8 or 9.

Now: more consistently from about 5 to 8, occasionally 9, usually about 6, rarely below 5.

I'd need cosmetic surgery to hit 10.

 

[lebRambo]

before, probably a 3.

now, probably a 7. Still got a long way to go!

 

[Life-Trainee]

In regards to women:
Before: 0
Now: 3

This site made me conscious of Other problems I have. I did improve in other areas by the way I dress, carry myself, relate to people.

My confidence even though flaky is more than it was before with people in general. I've still a long way to go.

Confidence is something that is not unilateral unfortunately. It's entirely context-based. So i've a long way to go with attaining the confidence I want with women.

 

[h2o]

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before: -3
now: 6.5

it all depends though...but before this site, i was horrid with women...i mean...sometimes i can't believe how much i've changed, it's unbelievable

 

[Brian20o2]

before = 3
now = 6

improved in many other areas too

 

[Egoist]

Not sure yet..

i've always been relatively good with women, but always in LTRs, recently single, and just discovered the game recently.

I got into it through evolutionary psychology/NLP kinda stuff though..

DJ/Alpha/real man thing really makes sense after reading most of those books (well the evolutionary psych stuff)

anyways, I am still a work in progress.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

Before: -3
After: 6

I still got much more but I'm noticing how girls want to talk to me. And be around me.

 

[Dysfunctional]

Before: 3 - I really sucked

Now: 5 - I don't suck as hard I joined about a week ago and I've gotten a date with a kiss since. Soon to be more dates and more kisses and some "hubba-hubba".

 

[PRMoon]

I was at about a 8 when I started out here and i'm at about an 8.5 now i guess i'd say if I have to use numbers.
I've proven myself countless times to the masses in the past and I continue to do so now. I'm not perfect nor will I ever be but I do know I've reached a level of indifferance when it comes to picking up women. Do or die...it's all the same to me.

note: That extra half point should be compared to the comission an loan officer gets for a home loan...yeah it's that substantial.

 

[thefonz]

Before One-Itis : 8

After Onetis: 2

After Sosuave (But still fluctuating): 5-7

It's gone down since before my onetis because I'm still working on training myself on not getting overly attached to girls. Although I used to be good with women it was only cus I knew I had at least one woman who I was infatuated with that I could fall back on which made me feel invincible when hitting on other women.......Now I realize how dangerous that is and I'm trying to be able to feel comfortable knowing that I don't need that 'special someone' to make my game tight. I'm trying to learn total self-reliance and it ain't easy but I've been working at it for about a year

 

[Sargeholic]

Before: 6
Now: 7.5

Before I was a semi-natural with massive approach anxiety (in other words, I managed about a dozen lays in about a year of single time that was spread between a couple LTRs). Pretty much all were initiated by the girl or were drunken fools mate. I then had a 3+ year LTR with a HB8 who I came thisclose to marrying.

Now I am in the field, overcoming approach anxiety, and doors are opening. I have six solid lays and about a dozen dates since coming to here/ASF in July. Even in the last two weeks I have made huge strides.

Next step is to eradicate approach anxiety completely and start being consistent with girls who are 8+ in rating.

 

[S-lemond]

7
10

u think im kiding......

 

[S-lemond]

Originally posted by change
before = 3
now = 10

nice

 

[SlyD4rK]

4


improved to a...


7 but no alpha-dominance yet

 

[So pimp its scary]

Originally posted by Lifeforce
Before: 0
After: 7-8?

Ditto

 

[spider_007]

before -3
after - 6(that number might be a bit different if i actually went in the field)