forcerecon01
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Do you guys like alcohol? I like to have a few beers before I date a woman and I like to feel loose. Is alcohol okay in moderation?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
beer?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I avoid beer on dates or when going out to meet women, because hops is a powerful phytoestrogen and will tank your testosterone -- even in the short term.
On dates, I usually stick with vodka-seltzers or red wine, if the venue calls for it.
Sure, alcohol is okay in moderation on dates -- it's part of the fun of meeting someone new. I've made the mistake, many times, of "loosening up" before a date with some booze to numb the nerves, and getting too drunk. Nothing dries a woman's vagina up faster than being on a date with a man who is throwing them back.
"Does he need to be drunk to talk to women?"
"Does he need to be drunk to find me attractive?"
"Is he scared of women and that's why he's getting drunk?"
"Is he an alcoholic?"
"Ew, he's drunk."
I've fvcked up a lot of otherwise good dates with hot women simply by getting too drunk. You know your limits. If I find my mouth is starting to get rubbery when I talk, I've wayyy overdone it.
On dates, I usually stick with vodka-seltzers or red wine, if the venue calls for it.
Sure, alcohol is okay in moderation on dates -- it's part of the fun of meeting someone new. I've made the mistake, many times, of "loosening up" before a date with some booze to numb the nerves, and getting too drunk. Nothing dries a woman's vagina up faster than being on a date with a man who is throwing them back.
"Does he need to be drunk to talk to women?"
"Does he need to be drunk to find me attractive?"
"Is he scared of women and that's why he's getting drunk?"
"Is he an alcoholic?"
"Ew, he's drunk."
I've fvcked up a lot of otherwise good dates with hot women simply by getting too drunk. You know your limits. If I find my mouth is starting to get rubbery when I talk, I've wayyy overdone it.
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
Yeah, I go out for beer. That's the purpose of being in a bar.
Occasionally they will have run out and then I drink ****tails.
Doesn't matter how drunk I get since I don't approach women
when I go out anyway. I'm there for the drinking.
Occasionally they will have run out and then I drink ****tails.
Doesn't matter how drunk I get since I don't approach women
when I go out anyway. I'm there for the drinking.
SW15
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Beer is ok in small amounts. The phytoestrogenic elementic is bad. Phytoestrogens is why I've avoided the majority of products with soy or elements of soy (soy leitchin, soybean oil, etc). 1 beer with a meal likely won't impact sexual performance if the meal itself is well balanced nutritionally.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
I'm three pints down (sue me, it's a sunny day) and I'm just off to work.
Wish me luck. LOL
Wish me luck. LOL
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Beer is my Kryptonite. Pilsener... I tell you.
But I don't drink beer on dates. Rather a glass of wine or a sour bourbon. But that's the absolute exception. Only if she wants to drink something otherwise I stay sober.
Beer makes me tired. Two beers after work and I can go to bed.
But I don't drink beer on dates. Rather a glass of wine or a sour bourbon. But that's the absolute exception. Only if she wants to drink something otherwise I stay sober.
Beer makes me tired. Two beers after work and I can go to bed.
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
Well…. I made it to work ok….
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Not for me. Frigging ice cream is the only vice I'm sort of "addicted" too and my kryptonite if you will . But a very controllable vice tho.
I don't eat sweats/candy and other unhealthy things and eat healthy/train at the gym etc.
But proper made ice cream is just too damn tasty.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Feck hell ye.. Or proper "home made" Italian ice cream is da bomb.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
Why is this? Yesterday I bought 8 cans and I also bought a very nice bottle of gin.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Gin and tonic is good sheite too... Yum!Why is this? Yesterday I bought 8 cans and I also bought a very nice bottle of gin.
andreihaha
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I like drinking.
That being said, beer is a no-no for me before or on a date. If fks up your testosterone and makes you pee a lot eventually.
A gin and tonic or wine works in my favour on a date. And a little wine or 40% liquour before the date, if I feel too sober.
But if I'm not on a first/second date, I can have a few beers, no problem.
That being said, beer is a no-no for me before or on a date. If fks up your testosterone and makes you pee a lot eventually.
A gin and tonic or wine works in my favour on a date. And a little wine or 40% liquour before the date, if I feel too sober.
But if I'm not on a first/second date, I can have a few beers, no problem.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
f(x)
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Michelob Ultra is the only beer I can drink anymore. One 24oz can is all I’ll allow. I wish the commercials weren’t so lame and marketed to fitness culture. It’s pretty good.
I used to drink heavily. Anything and everything. My body just can’t process booze like it used to.
I usually get some sort of “craft” _cocktail on dates.
I used to drink heavily. Anything and everything. My body just can’t process booze like it used to.
I usually get some sort of “craft” _cocktail on dates.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Welp, these two beer commercials will never get old and are both hilarious and genius:
(See them in the right sequence with Heinken first)
First Heineken's Walk-in:
and then second Bavarian's prank/spoof on Heineken's commercial (Which is priceless!) Ha ha lmfao
Now enjoy and profit!
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lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
Here that is again.
If that's true, then given how much I consume it's a wonder I don't have t1ts and a period
every few weeks...
I’m going to a German beer garden tonight to drink cold German Munich lager from a 2-pint tankard and eat warm buttered pretzels.
This place is packed with hot girls, but I’m going there to drink beer with my buddies. There’s no likely scenario where I will be charming and horny after 4+ pints of beer. College was long ago.
This place is packed with hot girls, but I’m going there to drink beer with my buddies. There’s no likely scenario where I will be charming and horny after 4+ pints of beer. College was long ago.
Men who drink beer heavily tend to grow guts and tits.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.