I've met this girl online and we finally ended up hanging out. First day we hangout was fun we watched a movie and hookedup and has sex. We hung out a total of 3 times and had sex every time and we went out for dinner the 3rd time and I bought the dinner. She was very interested in me firs 2 or 3 weeks. Ever since then we've still been talking but she's gone distant on me and ignores my texts and called her twice she never answered. She'll text back but usually she just ignores it or sends a small one word response And I've asked her out to hangout and do stuff but she said she was going to the coast this weekend and I asked her again later a few days later and she told.me she will let me know when shes not busy. She also said she was driving home when she didn't respond the one time. But I'm just confused was wondering if anyone had any sound advice cuz I do like this girl .
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Been seeing/talking to this girl for about a month now...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ok, I know this I've had woman do this type of thing before
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
(Until Brad messes up).
Got ya
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
soulforge
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Here's my take, OP. Don't cut her off on all social media. However, stop liking (Facebook), heart (Instagram), and commenting on any medium if you haven't already done so.
Unfriending on all social mediums will send a signal to her that you're NEXTing her. That's completely fine if that's what you want to do.
If you want to let her operate in the gray area, don't unfriend until her interest level is confirmed south of 51%. In the meantime, ramp up other plates/options.
Unfriending on all social mediums will send a signal to her that you're NEXTing her. That's completely fine if that's what you want to do.
If you want to let her operate in the gray area, don't unfriend until her interest level is confirmed south of 51%. In the meantime, ramp up other plates/options.
wifehunter
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play it safe... 97%
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@Adaml1987. Yes, just her content.
Although if you're hyper commenting on others content, you look too available, that's just my opinion.
Although if you're hyper commenting on others content, you look too available, that's just my opinion.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Sounds like you might have gotten too needy/clingy. Sooo now she has a suprise trip. This is all speculation tho. If she really liked you, you'd think she would have given you the heads up on her trip.
You really shouldn't care tho this soon and you should be talking to other prospects/plates. Kill the onetis bro, talk to more broads.
When a broad takes 1 step back, you take 2!
You really shouldn't care tho this soon and you should be talking to other prospects/plates. Kill the onetis bro, talk to more broads.
When a broad takes 1 step back, you take 2!
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Most probably is sucking someone else's c0ck off the dating site you met her on. Forget about her and on to the next!
SmooveMooves
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You were boring; probably really nice. A little needy.
Why does everything have to be a next? Stop contacting her and use her for sex. Let her initiate, only respond if she wants to come over so you can take her to poundtown.
Don't delete her off social media. All it does is show that she affected you. Women are children. Would you delete your niece off social media if she got on your nerves? Withdraw attention, pursue other women.
Its not rocket science.
Why does everything have to be a next? Stop contacting her and use her for sex. Let her initiate, only respond if she wants to come over so you can take her to poundtown.
Don't delete her off social media. All it does is show that she affected you. Women are children. Would you delete your niece off social media if she got on your nerves? Withdraw attention, pursue other women.
Its not rocket science.