I've met this girl online and we finally ended up hanging out. First day we hangout was fun we watched a movie and hookedup and has sex. We hung out a total of 3 times and had sex every time and we went out for dinner the 3rd time and I bought the dinner. She was very interested in me firs 2 or 3 weeks. Ever since then we've still been talking but she's gone distant on me and ignores my texts and called her twice she never answered. She'll text back but usually she just ignores it or sends a small one word response And I've asked her out to hangout and do stuff but she said she was going to the coast this weekend and I asked her again later a few days later and she told.me she will let me know when shes not busy. She also said she was driving home when she didn't respond the one time. But I'm just confused was wondering if anyone had any sound advice cuz I do like this girl .
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Been seeing/talking to this girl for about a month now...
- Thread starter Adaml1987
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Ok, I know this I've had woman do this type of thing before
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
(Until Brad messes up).
Got ya
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Most is like 70%
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Here's my take, OP. Don't cut her off on all social media. However, stop liking (Facebook), heart (Instagram), and commenting on any medium if you haven't already done so.
Unfriending on all social mediums will send a signal to her that you're NEXTing her. That's completely fine if that's what you want to do.
If you want to let her operate in the gray area, don't unfriend until her interest level is confirmed south of 51%. In the meantime, ramp up other plates/options.
Unfriending on all social mediums will send a signal to her that you're NEXTing her. That's completely fine if that's what you want to do.
If you want to let her operate in the gray area, don't unfriend until her interest level is confirmed south of 51%. In the meantime, ramp up other plates/options.
wifehunter
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play it safe... 97%
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@Adaml1987. Yes, just her content.
Although if you're hyper commenting on others content, you look too available, that's just my opinion.
Although if you're hyper commenting on others content, you look too available, that's just my opinion.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Sounds like you might have gotten too needy/clingy. Sooo now she has a suprise trip. This is all speculation tho. If she really liked you, you'd think she would have given you the heads up on her trip.
You really shouldn't care tho this soon and you should be talking to other prospects/plates. Kill the onetis bro, talk to more broads.
When a broad takes 1 step back, you take 2!
You really shouldn't care tho this soon and you should be talking to other prospects/plates. Kill the onetis bro, talk to more broads.
When a broad takes 1 step back, you take 2!
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Most probably is sucking someone else's c0ck off the dating site you met her on. Forget about her and on to the next!
SmooveMooves
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You were boring; probably really nice. A little needy.
Why does everything have to be a next? Stop contacting her and use her for sex. Let her initiate, only respond if she wants to come over so you can take her to poundtown.
Don't delete her off social media. All it does is show that she affected you. Women are children. Would you delete your niece off social media if she got on your nerves? Withdraw attention, pursue other women.
Its not rocket science.
Why does everything have to be a next? Stop contacting her and use her for sex. Let her initiate, only respond if she wants to come over so you can take her to poundtown.
Don't delete her off social media. All it does is show that she affected you. Women are children. Would you delete your niece off social media if she got on your nerves? Withdraw attention, pursue other women.
Its not rocket science.