I've met this girl online and we finally ended up hanging out. First day we hangout was fun we watched a movie and hookedup and has sex. We hung out a total of 3 times and had sex every time and we went out for dinner the 3rd time and I bought the dinner. She was very interested in me firs 2 or 3 weeks. Ever since then we've still been talking but she's gone distant on me and ignores my texts and called her twice she never answered. She'll text back but usually she just ignores it or sends a small one word response And I've asked her out to hangout and do stuff but she said she was going to the coast this weekend and I asked her again later a few days later and she told.me she will let me know when shes not busy. She also said she was driving home when she didn't respond the one time. But I'm just confused was wondering if anyone had any sound advice cuz I do like this girl .
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Been seeing/talking to this girl for about a month now...
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ok, I know this I've had woman do this type of thing before
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
(Until Brad messes up).
Got ya
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Most is like 70%
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Here's my take, OP. Don't cut her off on all social media. However, stop liking (Facebook), heart (Instagram), and commenting on any medium if you haven't already done so.
Unfriending on all social mediums will send a signal to her that you're NEXTing her. That's completely fine if that's what you want to do.
If you want to let her operate in the gray area, don't unfriend until her interest level is confirmed south of 51%. In the meantime, ramp up other plates/options.
Unfriending on all social mediums will send a signal to her that you're NEXTing her. That's completely fine if that's what you want to do.
If you want to let her operate in the gray area, don't unfriend until her interest level is confirmed south of 51%. In the meantime, ramp up other plates/options.
wifehunter
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play it safe... 97%
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@Adaml1987. Yes, just her content.
Although if you're hyper commenting on others content, you look too available, that's just my opinion.
Although if you're hyper commenting on others content, you look too available, that's just my opinion.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Sounds like you might have gotten too needy/clingy. Sooo now she has a suprise trip. This is all speculation tho. If she really liked you, you'd think she would have given you the heads up on her trip.
You really shouldn't care tho this soon and you should be talking to other prospects/plates. Kill the onetis bro, talk to more broads.
When a broad takes 1 step back, you take 2!
You really shouldn't care tho this soon and you should be talking to other prospects/plates. Kill the onetis bro, talk to more broads.
When a broad takes 1 step back, you take 2!
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Most probably is sucking someone else's c0ck off the dating site you met her on. Forget about her and on to the next!
SmooveMooves
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You were boring; probably really nice. A little needy.
Why does everything have to be a next? Stop contacting her and use her for sex. Let her initiate, only respond if she wants to come over so you can take her to poundtown.
Don't delete her off social media. All it does is show that she affected you. Women are children. Would you delete your niece off social media if she got on your nerves? Withdraw attention, pursue other women.
Its not rocket science.
Why does everything have to be a next? Stop contacting her and use her for sex. Let her initiate, only respond if she wants to come over so you can take her to poundtown.
Don't delete her off social media. All it does is show that she affected you. Women are children. Would you delete your niece off social media if she got on your nerves? Withdraw attention, pursue other women.
Its not rocket science.