"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Been Having Really Weird Dreams Lately

Georgepithyou

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I've been having really weird dreams of me traveling back to my old highschool or my old Town and meeting people i have never seen before in real life.
I'm really curious as to what exactly is going on in my mind to develop these dreams that i have been having for 7 weeks now during lockdown. I read that we can't create people and that everyone we dream about is someone we met.

Everytime i wake i forget most of the details, is there a way to clearly remember exactly what happens in your dreams or even control it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In the past two or three years I barely remember what I dream about and if I do its mostly some weird sh1t as well. I used to have much more interesting ones.
 

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The best option is to use the voice recorder option on your phone as soon as you wake up. Also, if something during the day reminds you of the dream, you can add this to your dream entry. Always save each entry by the date that you had your dream(s).
 

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I read that we can't create people and that everyone we dream about is someone we met.
That can't be true, you're able to dream up wild stuff you're barely able to imagine while awake, but can't make up people? Your dreams involving people you've never seen is proof enough.

Everytime i wake i forget most of the details, is there a way to clearly remember exactly what happens in your dreams or even control it?
Yes, some people do this as a hobby. I focused on this for a while and learned to take complete control in my dreams, kinda fun being all-powerful. Look up lucid dreaming, there's tons of stuff to read about it.

There's typically two techniques to induce lucid dreams, Mnemonic Induction to Lucid Dreaming (MILD) and Wake-Initiated Lucid Dream (WILD). Might want to look into that. As for remembering, write down what you remember immediately after waking up or record it as mentioned above. The memory is clearest at that time and then quickly fades.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hometown

To dream of your hometown indicates that you may be experiencing some unexpressed feelings. You may feel that you are not able to fully express your emotions. This could be triggered by some unfinished feeling in your waking life. The dream could also reflect aspects of yourself that were prominent or developed when you were living in your hometown. Did you abandon certain values or ideals when you moved to the big city? Did you forget some aspect of yourself and who you really are?
 
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