"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Been Having Really Weird Dreams Lately

Georgepithyou

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I've been having really weird dreams of me traveling back to my old highschool or my old Town and meeting people i have never seen before in real life.
I'm really curious as to what exactly is going on in my mind to develop these dreams that i have been having for 7 weeks now during lockdown. I read that we can't create people and that everyone we dream about is someone we met.

Everytime i wake i forget most of the details, is there a way to clearly remember exactly what happens in your dreams or even control it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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In the past two or three years I barely remember what I dream about and if I do its mostly some weird sh1t as well. I used to have much more interesting ones.
 

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The best option is to use the voice recorder option on your phone as soon as you wake up. Also, if something during the day reminds you of the dream, you can add this to your dream entry. Always save each entry by the date that you had your dream(s).
 

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I read that we can't create people and that everyone we dream about is someone we met.
That can't be true, you're able to dream up wild stuff you're barely able to imagine while awake, but can't make up people? Your dreams involving people you've never seen is proof enough.

Everytime i wake i forget most of the details, is there a way to clearly remember exactly what happens in your dreams or even control it?
Yes, some people do this as a hobby. I focused on this for a while and learned to take complete control in my dreams, kinda fun being all-powerful. Look up lucid dreaming, there's tons of stuff to read about it.

There's typically two techniques to induce lucid dreams, Mnemonic Induction to Lucid Dreaming (MILD) and Wake-Initiated Lucid Dream (WILD). Might want to look into that. As for remembering, write down what you remember immediately after waking up or record it as mentioned above. The memory is clearest at that time and then quickly fades.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hometown

To dream of your hometown indicates that you may be experiencing some unexpressed feelings. You may feel that you are not able to fully express your emotions. This could be triggered by some unfinished feeling in your waking life. The dream could also reflect aspects of yourself that were prominent or developed when you were living in your hometown. Did you abandon certain values or ideals when you moved to the big city? Did you forget some aspect of yourself and who you really are?
 
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