"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Been Gone For A While - Looking for advice

Double_Diamonds

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Hey everybody, I'm been gone from sosuave for quite a long time, I really got my stuff togethor now. I think I'm ready to come back and help the newbies out. Sorry, but up til now I didn't know about that field report rule. That's cool, I'll keep up on it.

I'm getting good at those spontaneous situations and I don't need to ask for help anymore. But I know how this situation will turn out, and I'd like some advice. You guys are full of it (advice, that is lol). Here's the deal:

I'm 15 years old and I'm experienced here, so don't tell me to "be confident" lol. Ummm, I'm going to be meetign up with a girl alone, at night, in the park. We haven't seen each other in years, so we're goign to toke it up a bit and talk. Her house is in town, while mine is not. Could you just give me some pointers guys. Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Void

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Dude!!! I havn't talked to you in such a long time. You're never on AIM. (Oh by the way this is my new name, my old one was Ireallywantgirls.) Havn't reached the stage your at yet, getting their anways.

I donate my 400th post to you, I was going to make it a thread...

Okay, so you and this girl are going to be smoking pot in a park at night. Um...that doesn't require that much talking! (if you did mean in the literal sense toke it up a bit!)

Well so you're in a park man, have some fun, play with her, lay with her on the grass. Makeout...Talk to her about what she's doing...dude this kind of conversation flows naturally man.
Play around in the park, whatever kind of fun stuff they have their just have fun with it... So anyways man, the whole point of being at the park at NIGHT is to have fun (and if you guys are doing the maryjane fun's no issue ;) ). Have some fun man...I took time to think about this and this all I could think of. If I think of more I'll be sure to get back at you...Hey man make sure you IM me at whatn0w09 or RevoltRenegade. Havn't talked to you in awhile.

Good luck man...

400th post...
 

Double_Diamonds

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Hey man I didn't realize that was you (i recognize you by whatnow9). How's it going, thanks for the advice. I'm glad you replied and it's great to see you still active. Keep it up bro. I'll try to be on more often.
 

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u started so suave at 12!!!!!!!!!! wow are u serious????
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Let's see:

1. Weed
2. Park
3. Night
4. Chick

I think you have this situation well in hand sir.

AS
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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