"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Been Gone For A While - Looking for advice

Double_Diamonds

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Hey everybody, I'm been gone from sosuave for quite a long time, I really got my stuff togethor now. I think I'm ready to come back and help the newbies out. Sorry, but up til now I didn't know about that field report rule. That's cool, I'll keep up on it.

I'm getting good at those spontaneous situations and I don't need to ask for help anymore. But I know how this situation will turn out, and I'd like some advice. You guys are full of it (advice, that is lol). Here's the deal:

I'm 15 years old and I'm experienced here, so don't tell me to "be confident" lol. Ummm, I'm going to be meetign up with a girl alone, at night, in the park. We haven't seen each other in years, so we're goign to toke it up a bit and talk. Her house is in town, while mine is not. Could you just give me some pointers guys. Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Void

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Dude!!! I havn't talked to you in such a long time. You're never on AIM. (Oh by the way this is my new name, my old one was Ireallywantgirls.) Havn't reached the stage your at yet, getting their anways.

I donate my 400th post to you, I was going to make it a thread...

Okay, so you and this girl are going to be smoking pot in a park at night. Um...that doesn't require that much talking! (if you did mean in the literal sense toke it up a bit!)

Well so you're in a park man, have some fun, play with her, lay with her on the grass. Makeout...Talk to her about what she's doing...dude this kind of conversation flows naturally man.
Play around in the park, whatever kind of fun stuff they have their just have fun with it... So anyways man, the whole point of being at the park at NIGHT is to have fun (and if you guys are doing the maryjane fun's no issue ;) ). Have some fun man...I took time to think about this and this all I could think of. If I think of more I'll be sure to get back at you...Hey man make sure you IM me at whatn0w09 or RevoltRenegade. Havn't talked to you in awhile.

Good luck man...

400th post...
 

Double_Diamonds

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Hey man I didn't realize that was you (i recognize you by whatnow9). How's it going, thanks for the advice. I'm glad you replied and it's great to see you still active. Keep it up bro. I'll try to be on more often.
 

S-lemond

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u started so suave at 12!!!!!!!!!! wow are u serious????
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Let's see:

1. Weed
2. Park
3. Night
4. Chick

I think you have this situation well in hand sir.

AS
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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