Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Been Gone For A While - Looking for advice

Double_Diamonds

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Hey everybody, I'm been gone from sosuave for quite a long time, I really got my stuff togethor now. I think I'm ready to come back and help the newbies out. Sorry, but up til now I didn't know about that field report rule. That's cool, I'll keep up on it.

I'm getting good at those spontaneous situations and I don't need to ask for help anymore. But I know how this situation will turn out, and I'd like some advice. You guys are full of it (advice, that is lol). Here's the deal:

I'm 15 years old and I'm experienced here, so don't tell me to "be confident" lol. Ummm, I'm going to be meetign up with a girl alone, at night, in the park. We haven't seen each other in years, so we're goign to toke it up a bit and talk. Her house is in town, while mine is not. Could you just give me some pointers guys. Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Void

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Dude!!! I havn't talked to you in such a long time. You're never on AIM. (Oh by the way this is my new name, my old one was Ireallywantgirls.) Havn't reached the stage your at yet, getting their anways.

I donate my 400th post to you, I was going to make it a thread...

Okay, so you and this girl are going to be smoking pot in a park at night. Um...that doesn't require that much talking! (if you did mean in the literal sense toke it up a bit!)

Well so you're in a park man, have some fun, play with her, lay with her on the grass. Makeout...Talk to her about what she's doing...dude this kind of conversation flows naturally man.
Play around in the park, whatever kind of fun stuff they have their just have fun with it... So anyways man, the whole point of being at the park at NIGHT is to have fun (and if you guys are doing the maryjane fun's no issue ;) ). Have some fun man...I took time to think about this and this all I could think of. If I think of more I'll be sure to get back at you...Hey man make sure you IM me at whatn0w09 or RevoltRenegade. Havn't talked to you in awhile.

Good luck man...

400th post...
 

Double_Diamonds

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Hey man I didn't realize that was you (i recognize you by whatnow9). How's it going, thanks for the advice. I'm glad you replied and it's great to see you still active. Keep it up bro. I'll try to be on more often.
 

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u started so suave at 12!!!!!!!!!! wow are u serious????
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Let's see:

1. Weed
2. Park
3. Night
4. Chick

I think you have this situation well in hand sir.

AS
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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