“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Been Gone For A While - Looking for advice

Double_Diamonds

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Hey everybody, I'm been gone from sosuave for quite a long time, I really got my stuff togethor now. I think I'm ready to come back and help the newbies out. Sorry, but up til now I didn't know about that field report rule. That's cool, I'll keep up on it.

I'm getting good at those spontaneous situations and I don't need to ask for help anymore. But I know how this situation will turn out, and I'd like some advice. You guys are full of it (advice, that is lol). Here's the deal:

I'm 15 years old and I'm experienced here, so don't tell me to "be confident" lol. Ummm, I'm going to be meetign up with a girl alone, at night, in the park. We haven't seen each other in years, so we're goign to toke it up a bit and talk. Her house is in town, while mine is not. Could you just give me some pointers guys. Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Void

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Dude!!! I havn't talked to you in such a long time. You're never on AIM. (Oh by the way this is my new name, my old one was Ireallywantgirls.) Havn't reached the stage your at yet, getting their anways.

I donate my 400th post to you, I was going to make it a thread...

Okay, so you and this girl are going to be smoking pot in a park at night. Um...that doesn't require that much talking! (if you did mean in the literal sense toke it up a bit!)

Well so you're in a park man, have some fun, play with her, lay with her on the grass. Makeout...Talk to her about what she's doing...dude this kind of conversation flows naturally man.
Play around in the park, whatever kind of fun stuff they have their just have fun with it... So anyways man, the whole point of being at the park at NIGHT is to have fun (and if you guys are doing the maryjane fun's no issue ;) ). Have some fun man...I took time to think about this and this all I could think of. If I think of more I'll be sure to get back at you...Hey man make sure you IM me at whatn0w09 or RevoltRenegade. Havn't talked to you in awhile.

Good luck man...

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Double_Diamonds

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Hey man I didn't realize that was you (i recognize you by whatnow9). How's it going, thanks for the advice. I'm glad you replied and it's great to see you still active. Keep it up bro. I'll try to be on more often.
 

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u started so suave at 12!!!!!!!!!! wow are u serious????
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Let's see:

1. Weed
2. Park
3. Night
4. Chick

I think you have this situation well in hand sir.

AS
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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