"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Been Gaining Some Muscle, So Why Do I Weigh the Same?

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Well i've been hittin up the gym for the past few months working arms, chest, shoulders, etc different days and i've fell into a nice routine.

It appears that i'm getting bigger, but I havent gained any weight. Now this makes me question if I actually have gained any muscle, considering that my weight is the same. Am I doing something wrong, i'm really confused. It's scientifically proven that more mass= more weight, so wtf is going on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Drum&Bass

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I wouldn't worry about it, I'm going through the same shit right now.
Only thing I can think of is genetics. I've been from 140 lbs to 210 lbs back down to 170 lbs. I think this is close to where my genetic potential might be. Maybe as I hit my 30's I'll be around 180's. But I'm noticing that putting on LEAN muscle with no fat gives the appearance of being bigger but the scale says otherwise. Actually I don't even think I'm getting that much bigger rather, my body is becoming much more sculpted, its the the convex curves of the muscle that give the illusion of size.

oh and this whole concept of mass...I dunno, the more experienced I get with this fitness stuff the more I'm starting to think the term "MASS" is such a misleading word and not so great after all.

(my interpretation from a weightlifting perspective) Mass = FAT + MUSCLE = heavy
Lean = Low Fat + MUSCLE = light

which camp would you rather be in ???
 

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exactly, what are you in this for, gravity holding you down more strongly, or appearance of size?

if you really want to add weight and are determined, you'll need to eat more. but if you're happy with results in the mirror, who cares what the scale says?
 

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You're probably shedding the fat, and the definition you see now makes you appear more muscular.
 

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It's called gaining muscle while losing fat.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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