"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Me and and the offspring went out and about town this weekend and the thing I noticed was that there are beautiful women everywhere. Now I don't live in a major city...the population is about 224,810. But at the movies, the park, the malls, the stores, the bookstore, the grocery store. I saw great looking women, many without wedding rings everywhere we went. I got a few choosing but I don't approach women when I'm out with my little girl. That's just how I roll.

I notice during my day to day schedule, I rarely go anywhere. I go to work, home, deal with clients, and work on my business. On my free weekends I'm usually at home working.

There is really no excuse, they are out there, everywhere...now is the time to take action and go get em!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warrior74 said:
Me and and the offspring went out and about town this weekend and the thing I noticed was that there are beautiful women everywhere. Now I don't live in a major city...the population is about 224,810. But at the movies, the park, the malls, the stores, the bookstore, the grocery store. I saw great looking women, many without wedding rings everywhere we went. I got a few choosing but I don't approach women when I'm out with my little girl. That's just how I roll.

I notice during my day to day schedule, I rarely go anywhere. I go to work, home, deal with clients, and work on my business. On my free weekends I'm usually at home working.

There is really no excuse, they are out there, everywhere...now is the time to take action and go get em!
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Yes, pretty women, glamorous women, sassy women, crazy women, quality women,,,and some not so much. They are all out there. And they all want to meet men... that means YOU, soldier.
 
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Why are all the women I work with fugly?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I took note of the hot chics who were with guys. These guys didn't look any better than me, or worse than me, any richer or poorer. They were average suburban looking guys. Sure some of the really hot milfs were with some guys that looked like money, but some weren't. The range was all over the board. There are no excuses.
 
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Zunder said:
Why are all the women I work with fugly?
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Maybe if you quit working for the circus sideshow???:crazy:


Just kidding!
 
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I live in a town with a population of 10,000 and they are still everywhere. Grab your balls and talk to every cute woman you see. What's the worst that can happen?

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Why are all the women I work with fugly?
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That's a blessing. Do NOT go after girls at work. I learned that the hard way. I have a hot one who gave me her # at my new job, and I am not pursuing it at all. I told her to leave me alone. I have other girls I am feeding the sausage too so it doesn't bother me.
 
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Zunder said:
Why are all the women I work with fugly?
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I am resisting the temptation, so beloved by Australians, to make one of those " Kiwis love sheep" jokes.
However, I am wondering whether your comment above was describing your observation of female homo sapiens. :crackup:
 
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If you want to work around attractive women you need to be in a field that exposes you to the environments they enjoy:

Shopping
Expensive Food
Corporate Offices
Government Offices
Children
Animals

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Leisure Suit Larry said:
Grab your balls and talk to every cute woman you see. What's the worst that can happen?
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I agree with Larry. Talk to every cute woman you see while grabbing your balls. ;)

It guarantees that they'll notice you.

Cheers!
 
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I am resisting the temptation, so beloved by Australians, to make one of those " Kiwis love sheep" jokes.
However, I am wondering whether your comment above was describing your observation of female homo sapiens. :crackup:
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Get your own Jophill. I don't "share" my sheep.
 
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Tazman said:
If you want to work around attractive women you need to be in a field that exposes you to the environments they enjoy:

Shopping
Expensive Food
Corporate Offices
Government Offices
Children
Animals

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Or go to bars that they frequent.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Warrior74 said:
I took note of the hot chics who were with guys. These guys didn't look any better than me, or worse than me, any richer or poorer. They were average suburban looking guys. Sure some of the really hot milfs were with some guys that looked like money, but some weren't. The range was all over the board. There are no excuses.
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Actionman,

Why are you talking about it?
 
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Actionman,

Why are you talking about it?
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I got a few choosing but I don't approach women when I'm out with my little girl. That's just how I roll.
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My point wasnt about hesitation or what I need to do. My point was to say...there are no excuses for action. I got my team. I have two and I'm happy with that.
 
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Get your own Jophill. I don't "share" my sheep.
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Nice comeback, Zunder.
 
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Leisure Suit Larry said:
I live in a town with a population of 10,000 and they are still everywhere. Grab your balls and talk to every cute woman you see. What's the worst that can happen?
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You could live in a military town where it's like 2:1 men and the women that do live there have children or are old or both.
 
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I was talking with a female friend the other day and she believes there are FAR more hot women out there than hot guys. I cant really comment on the hot guy part, but I notice the women almost every day living in the city. There is such an abundance of hot women that every man can get some...it's ridiculous!!! No Man should ever have a scarcity mentality when it comes to women. There are so many out there who are willing to slide down your pole it's amazing. All you have to do is get a little creative and do some approaching. You dont even have to be that clever or "playa", just put yourself where women are and talk to them. Look for IOI's, interact, and ask them to hang out sometime.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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