"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Me and and the offspring went out and about town this weekend and the thing I noticed was that there are beautiful women everywhere. Now I don't live in a major city...the population is about 224,810. But at the movies, the park, the malls, the stores, the bookstore, the grocery store. I saw great looking women, many without wedding rings everywhere we went. I got a few choosing but I don't approach women when I'm out with my little girl. That's just how I roll.

I notice during my day to day schedule, I rarely go anywhere. I go to work, home, deal with clients, and work on my business. On my free weekends I'm usually at home working.

There is really no excuse, they are out there, everywhere...now is the time to take action and go get em!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warrior74 said:
Me and and the offspring went out and about town this weekend and the thing I noticed was that there are beautiful women everywhere. Now I don't live in a major city...the population is about 224,810. But at the movies, the park, the malls, the stores, the bookstore, the grocery store. I saw great looking women, many without wedding rings everywhere we went. I got a few choosing but I don't approach women when I'm out with my little girl. That's just how I roll.

I notice during my day to day schedule, I rarely go anywhere. I go to work, home, deal with clients, and work on my business. On my free weekends I'm usually at home working.

There is really no excuse, they are out there, everywhere...now is the time to take action and go get em!
Yes, pretty women, glamorous women, sassy women, crazy women, quality women,,,and some not so much. They are all out there. And they all want to meet men... that means YOU, soldier.
 

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Why are all the women I work with fugly?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I took note of the hot chics who were with guys. These guys didn't look any better than me, or worse than me, any richer or poorer. They were average suburban looking guys. Sure some of the really hot milfs were with some guys that looked like money, but some weren't. The range was all over the board. There are no excuses.
 

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Zunder said:
Why are all the women I work with fugly?

Maybe if you quit working for the circus sideshow???:crazy:


Just kidding!
 
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I live in a town with a population of 10,000 and they are still everywhere. Grab your balls and talk to every cute woman you see. What's the worst that can happen?

Zunder said:
Why are all the women I work with fugly?
That's a blessing. Do NOT go after girls at work. I learned that the hard way. I have a hot one who gave me her # at my new job, and I am not pursuing it at all. I told her to leave me alone. I have other girls I am feeding the sausage too so it doesn't bother me.
 

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Zunder said:
Why are all the women I work with fugly?
I am resisting the temptation, so beloved by Australians, to make one of those " Kiwis love sheep" jokes.
However, I am wondering whether your comment above was describing your observation of female homo sapiens. :crackup:
 

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If you want to work around attractive women you need to be in a field that exposes you to the environments they enjoy:

Shopping
Expensive Food
Corporate Offices
Government Offices
Children
Animals

The list goes on....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Leisure Suit Larry said:
Grab your balls and talk to every cute woman you see. What's the worst that can happen?
I agree with Larry. Talk to every cute woman you see while grabbing your balls. ;)

It guarantees that they'll notice you.

Cheers!
 

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jophil28 said:
I am resisting the temptation, so beloved by Australians, to make one of those " Kiwis love sheep" jokes.
However, I am wondering whether your comment above was describing your observation of female homo sapiens. :crackup:
Get your own Jophill. I don't "share" my sheep.
 

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Tazman said:
If you want to work around attractive women you need to be in a field that exposes you to the environments they enjoy:

Shopping
Expensive Food
Corporate Offices
Government Offices
Children
Animals

The list goes on....
Or go to bars that they frequent.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Warrior74 said:
I took note of the hot chics who were with guys. These guys didn't look any better than me, or worse than me, any richer or poorer. They were average suburban looking guys. Sure some of the really hot milfs were with some guys that looked like money, but some weren't. The range was all over the board. There are no excuses.
Actionman,

Why are you talking about it?
 

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guru1000 said:
Actionman,

Why are you talking about it?

I got a few choosing but I don't approach women when I'm out with my little girl. That's just how I roll.

My point wasnt about hesitation or what I need to do. My point was to say...there are no excuses for action. I got my team. I have two and I'm happy with that.
 

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Zunder said:
Get your own Jophill. I don't "share" my sheep.
Nice comeback, Zunder.
 

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Leisure Suit Larry said:
I live in a town with a population of 10,000 and they are still everywhere. Grab your balls and talk to every cute woman you see. What's the worst that can happen?

You could live in a military town where it's like 2:1 men and the women that do live there have children or are old or both.
 

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I was talking with a female friend the other day and she believes there are FAR more hot women out there than hot guys. I cant really comment on the hot guy part, but I notice the women almost every day living in the city. There is such an abundance of hot women that every man can get some...it's ridiculous!!! No Man should ever have a scarcity mentality when it comes to women. There are so many out there who are willing to slide down your pole it's amazing. All you have to do is get a little creative and do some approaching. You dont even have to be that clever or "playa", just put yourself where women are and talk to them. Look for IOI's, interact, and ask them to hang out sometime.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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