edger said:
Oh come on dude, listen to how ridiculous that sounds. If it were that easy, then why haven't I(a good-looking guy, but I know that doesn't matter) gotten laid(without the use of escorts/prostitutes from Amsterdam) since April 2007? You of all people since being on this site for a number of yrs, should know it doesn't work that way.
I will admit one thing though...I have had a few hot women vibe me within the last several months who I never approached because I chickened out, or chicks who it wasn't the appropriate moment with or other reasons. But whether or not they would've wanted to hit the bedroom with me, is a whole other question. Most likely they wouldn't have, as that seems to be the trend with me. Most hot women who I approach after getting vibes from, never goes anywhere. Same sh*t happens with the ones who cold-approach me. Had a full-blown hottie cold-approach me this past Saturday, but within 5 minutes or so, blew me off.
It's partially a numbers game, but it's also your Game. You just said you chickened out with approaches. What about the girl who approached you? If she was interested in YOU and opened YOU, the only reason you don't have her in the bag is because of YOUR game.
Also do you question what you have going for you that a woman would want? So many guys think "I have a full time job, I'm above average looking, and a I work out 3-4 times a week, I'm an ultra catch!". For a 6 maybe.
I know my game needs work, and I'm pretty good looking. I'm easily in the top 5% of guys for physique here in the midwest, I'd say top 10% in LA or some other hot spot. Give it another year and I'll be top 1/5. But that's only part of it. You want that 9 or 10? So does every other guy. You better have something SERIOUS to show for it ... looks, body, personality/being outgoing, and some good $$. Anyone who says any of those "dont matter" is just lacking in that area. All of it matters.
But yea, there are hot girls everywhere, though it does vary by location. I'm also from the midwest and I just got back from LA a couple nights ago. We got some friends down there and we hit up a bday party/party bus/club hop with a 4:1 girl:guy ratio .... ALL of them looked like barbies. LA in general is full of hot chicks, can't even compare to the midwest. But yea, they are everywhere.