"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Me and and the offspring went out and about town this weekend and the thing I noticed was that there are beautiful women everywhere. Now I don't live in a major city...the population is about 224,810. But at the movies, the park, the malls, the stores, the bookstore, the grocery store. I saw great looking women, many without wedding rings everywhere we went. I got a few choosing but I don't approach women when I'm out with my little girl. That's just how I roll.

I notice during my day to day schedule, I rarely go anywhere. I go to work, home, deal with clients, and work on my business. On my free weekends I'm usually at home working.

There is really no excuse, they are out there, everywhere...now is the time to take action and go get em!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Warrior74 said:
Me and and the offspring went out and about town this weekend and the thing I noticed was that there are beautiful women everywhere. Now I don't live in a major city...the population is about 224,810. But at the movies, the park, the malls, the stores, the bookstore, the grocery store. I saw great looking women, many without wedding rings everywhere we went. I got a few choosing but I don't approach women when I'm out with my little girl. That's just how I roll.

I notice during my day to day schedule, I rarely go anywhere. I go to work, home, deal with clients, and work on my business. On my free weekends I'm usually at home working.

There is really no excuse, they are out there, everywhere...now is the time to take action and go get em!
Yes, pretty women, glamorous women, sassy women, crazy women, quality women,,,and some not so much. They are all out there. And they all want to meet men... that means YOU, soldier.
 

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Why are all the women I work with fugly?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I took note of the hot chics who were with guys. These guys didn't look any better than me, or worse than me, any richer or poorer. They were average suburban looking guys. Sure some of the really hot milfs were with some guys that looked like money, but some weren't. The range was all over the board. There are no excuses.
 

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Zunder said:
Why are all the women I work with fugly?

Maybe if you quit working for the circus sideshow???:crazy:


Just kidding!
 
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I live in a town with a population of 10,000 and they are still everywhere. Grab your balls and talk to every cute woman you see. What's the worst that can happen?

Zunder said:
Why are all the women I work with fugly?
That's a blessing. Do NOT go after girls at work. I learned that the hard way. I have a hot one who gave me her # at my new job, and I am not pursuing it at all. I told her to leave me alone. I have other girls I am feeding the sausage too so it doesn't bother me.
 

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Zunder said:
Why are all the women I work with fugly?
I am resisting the temptation, so beloved by Australians, to make one of those " Kiwis love sheep" jokes.
However, I am wondering whether your comment above was describing your observation of female homo sapiens. :crackup:
 

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If you want to work around attractive women you need to be in a field that exposes you to the environments they enjoy:

Shopping
Expensive Food
Corporate Offices
Government Offices
Children
Animals

The list goes on....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Leisure Suit Larry said:
Grab your balls and talk to every cute woman you see. What's the worst that can happen?
I agree with Larry. Talk to every cute woman you see while grabbing your balls. ;)

It guarantees that they'll notice you.

Cheers!
 

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jophil28 said:
I am resisting the temptation, so beloved by Australians, to make one of those " Kiwis love sheep" jokes.
However, I am wondering whether your comment above was describing your observation of female homo sapiens. :crackup:
Get your own Jophill. I don't "share" my sheep.
 

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Tazman said:
If you want to work around attractive women you need to be in a field that exposes you to the environments they enjoy:

Shopping
Expensive Food
Corporate Offices
Government Offices
Children
Animals

The list goes on....
Or go to bars that they frequent.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warrior74 said:
I took note of the hot chics who were with guys. These guys didn't look any better than me, or worse than me, any richer or poorer. They were average suburban looking guys. Sure some of the really hot milfs were with some guys that looked like money, but some weren't. The range was all over the board. There are no excuses.
Actionman,

Why are you talking about it?
 

Warrior74

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guru1000 said:
Actionman,

Why are you talking about it?

I got a few choosing but I don't approach women when I'm out with my little girl. That's just how I roll.

My point wasnt about hesitation or what I need to do. My point was to say...there are no excuses for action. I got my team. I have two and I'm happy with that.
 

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Zunder said:
Get your own Jophill. I don't "share" my sheep.
Nice comeback, Zunder.
 

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Leisure Suit Larry said:
I live in a town with a population of 10,000 and they are still everywhere. Grab your balls and talk to every cute woman you see. What's the worst that can happen?

You could live in a military town where it's like 2:1 men and the women that do live there have children or are old or both.
 

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I was talking with a female friend the other day and she believes there are FAR more hot women out there than hot guys. I cant really comment on the hot guy part, but I notice the women almost every day living in the city. There is such an abundance of hot women that every man can get some...it's ridiculous!!! No Man should ever have a scarcity mentality when it comes to women. There are so many out there who are willing to slide down your pole it's amazing. All you have to do is get a little creative and do some approaching. You dont even have to be that clever or "playa", just put yourself where women are and talk to them. Look for IOI's, interact, and ask them to hang out sometime.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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