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Master Don Juan
Guru1000, this is great, please continue to share your inspiring stories with us.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
does not compute.BackInTheGame78 said:I already know is an extremely sexual woman based on conversations...
"Yeah that's cool as long as you wear something extra sexy for me" and she was like "I can definitely do that...I got lots of sexy clothes"
Both girls are dumbfounded by my comment. I turn away from them and walk toward my car. They are still standing there talking to each other while looking at my entering the car. I start the ignition. They walk over.Girl: <Says something in Russian to her friend while looking at me>
Guru: What’s that? You are asking for a ride? Sorry I don’t speak Russian, say that in English.
<Both girls turn to me and look obviously drunk or very buzzed>
Girl: Hey, you don’t know us. Why are you talking to us?
Guru: No, you got it wrong. Your friend here was trying to pick me up by asking for a ride.
Girl: She was talking to me, not you.
Guru: If you want a ride, get in the car right now. Otherwise, goodbye.
The girls enter the car.Girl: Hey, how do we know you won’t kidnap us?
Guru: Well, I haven’t kidnapped anyone … at least not lately. Get in.
I whip out my phone and show her a plate, who is freakin’ hot.Girl: Do you have a girlfriend?
Guru: A couple
Girl: A couple? I’m not into guys that are players.
Guru: Good, I didn’t want you getting the wrong idea.
Girl: What? Who do you think you are? Your gfs are probably ugly anyway.
I proceed to write down my number. She grabs the pen and paper, and proceeds to write down hers.Girl: Wow, she is beautiful.
Guru: Yeah, I’m not that into her. But what can I do? Anyway, it’s getting late, I have to get going. Give me your number.
Girl: I’m not giving you my number.
Guru: OK, what’s the difference, take mine and when you call, I’ll know yours. lol
I notice the girl is getting sleepy. She’s closing her eyes. We stop talking. After a few minutes, she lays down on my console, and I massage her hair and neck. Ten minutes later, this girl is out cold. I tell her, “Hey, let’s go back to my place. We’ll take a nap. When we get up, we’ll go jet skiing.” She doesn’t answer. I tell her again. She doesn’t respond. So, I start the car and start driving down to my place, lol.Guru: What are you doing tonight? Let’s hang out.
Girl: Why don’t we go jet skiing right now?
Guru: It’s 6 in the morning.
This is point of the whole thread.guru1000 said:I wouldn't do this with girls in my social circle, as my business rep hangs. But with any other girl, no holds barred.
Bill Cosby, is that you? Lol.guru1000 said:I notice the girl is getting sleepy. She’s closing her eyes. We stop talking. After a few minutes, she lays down on my console, and I massage her hair and neck. Ten minutes later, this girl is out cold. I tell her, “Hey, let’s go back to my place. We’ll take a nap. When we get up, we’ll go jet skiing.” She doesn’t answer. I tell her again. She doesn’t respond. So, I start the car and start driving down to my place, lol.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
As guys like Captain55, who is more muscular yet leaner than I, will tell you, being ripped with muscle mass alone is not enough to close the deal. You need game too.Married Buried said:I think guru posted his pics once and he is cut as hell like a body builder.. so ofcourse he can pull this stuff off.. for the average skinny guy there is no way.
guru1000 said:As guys like Captain55, who is more muscular yet leaner than I, will tell you, being ripped with muscle mass alone is not enough to close the deal. You need game too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Married Buried said:I think guru posted his pics once and he is cut as hell like a body builder.. so ofcourse he can pull this stuff off.. for the average skinny guy there is no way.
No disrespect intended to Guru (who is one of the best posters here), but I have yet to see any evidence that doing an "apocalypse" type move ("I want to fvck you" or whatever) gets you across the line any faster than just escalating through more traditional means (having fun, kinoing, going for the kiss, etc). There's more than one way to skin a cat.Alexandar said:give me a break are you that dense? maybe not the 'average' skinny guy but the 'average'muscular guy also.cant pull it off.
its much more game than build, dont be so ignorant.
Well, if nothing else, it makes for good threads.guru1000 said:Quite frankly, I wish to live a life unfettered by the social constructs of "proper etiquette" and "rightful behavioral patterns." I express what I want in an overt fashion, as society frowns upon a guy who walks up to a single lady (who shares the same desires) and says, "Hey, I want to fvck you." But why should I subjugate myself to social constructs? Because it's safer?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
guru1000 said:But why should I subjugate myself to social constructs? Because it's safer?
guru1000 said:The goal of this thread is test new ideas and bring new info to the community. I am here to help men become superstars, but I don't have all the answers. And so, you are all welcome to share your over-the-top ideas and experiences in this thread as well, and let's feed off one another.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.