"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BDJ - One for the Brits

DJBen

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A lot of talk has been going on in other peoples threads. I want to suggest it here. Many of us feel you need different tactics over in the UK, and I think it will make for a great new addition for the site.

From what I've read here it's all geared towards C+F, and a lot of the comments I read would get you slapped over here although I know C+F works in the US [Tried it on some American mates]

It'll be interesting to come up with a brit "game plan" so to speak... it could potentially add a whole new side to DJing that no one has been able to look at properly. I think a forum for the brits could maybe find out if there is that other side, and if there is, what we can all do to cover it.

*leaves things open for discussion, as he knows this is a hot topic atm with some people*
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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i think what we should do is move to the USA :p it seems so much better over there, the weather the people, the shops EVERYTHING. i do not tinhk i will ever move there but its kind of somtihng that would be nice to do if you get what i mean. but yeh you are right, we need diffrent tactics but i find a lot of girls, well at least girls my age, seem to like C and F but i tihnk a lot would get upset if you used many strong NEG-HITS, i only use them lightly.

Im all for your idea, no reaosn why it sohuld not happen, its not hard to do.
 

jonny football hero

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In my experience, it is harder to "seduce" strangers, say, in the mall, because British people are naturally suspicious. It works but it takes alot of effort.
 
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