"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BDJ - One for the Brits

DJBen

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A lot of talk has been going on in other peoples threads. I want to suggest it here. Many of us feel you need different tactics over in the UK, and I think it will make for a great new addition for the site.

From what I've read here it's all geared towards C+F, and a lot of the comments I read would get you slapped over here although I know C+F works in the US [Tried it on some American mates]

It'll be interesting to come up with a brit "game plan" so to speak... it could potentially add a whole new side to DJing that no one has been able to look at properly. I think a forum for the brits could maybe find out if there is that other side, and if there is, what we can all do to cover it.

*leaves things open for discussion, as he knows this is a hot topic atm with some people*
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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i think what we should do is move to the USA :p it seems so much better over there, the weather the people, the shops EVERYTHING. i do not tinhk i will ever move there but its kind of somtihng that would be nice to do if you get what i mean. but yeh you are right, we need diffrent tactics but i find a lot of girls, well at least girls my age, seem to like C and F but i tihnk a lot would get upset if you used many strong NEG-HITS, i only use them lightly.

Im all for your idea, no reaosn why it sohuld not happen, its not hard to do.
 

jonny football hero

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In my experience, it is harder to "seduce" strangers, say, in the mall, because British people are naturally suspicious. It works but it takes alot of effort.
 
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