"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BDJ - One for the Brits

DJBen

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A lot of talk has been going on in other peoples threads. I want to suggest it here. Many of us feel you need different tactics over in the UK, and I think it will make for a great new addition for the site.

From what I've read here it's all geared towards C+F, and a lot of the comments I read would get you slapped over here although I know C+F works in the US [Tried it on some American mates]

It'll be interesting to come up with a brit "game plan" so to speak... it could potentially add a whole new side to DJing that no one has been able to look at properly. I think a forum for the brits could maybe find out if there is that other side, and if there is, what we can all do to cover it.

*leaves things open for discussion, as he knows this is a hot topic atm with some people*
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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i think what we should do is move to the USA :p it seems so much better over there, the weather the people, the shops EVERYTHING. i do not tinhk i will ever move there but its kind of somtihng that would be nice to do if you get what i mean. but yeh you are right, we need diffrent tactics but i find a lot of girls, well at least girls my age, seem to like C and F but i tihnk a lot would get upset if you used many strong NEG-HITS, i only use them lightly.

Im all for your idea, no reaosn why it sohuld not happen, its not hard to do.
 

jonny football hero

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In my experience, it is harder to "seduce" strangers, say, in the mall, because British people are naturally suspicious. It works but it takes alot of effort.
 
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