You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Agreed - although in the UK we call an 'overhand wide-grip chin-up' a pull-up.runner83 said:Bent-over barbell rows target the mid-back and the lats mostly (secondary - biceps, rear shoulders, lower back, traps).
Overhand wide-grip chin-ups target the lats primarily (secondary - biceps, shoulders).
In my opinion, both should be part of your routine. I do both.
runner83 said:Bent-over barbell rows target the mid-back and the lats mostly (secondary - biceps, rear shoulders, lower back, traps).
Overhand wide-grip chin-ups target the lats primarily (secondary - biceps, shoulders).
In my opinion, both should be part of your routine. I do both.
Since they are both targeting your back, depending on your workout split, I would recommend doing them both on "back day".
For example, my routine on that day consists of (part):
- Deadlifts
- Wide-grip overhand chin-ups
- Bent-over barbell rows
Generally, I think that chin-ups are best to do first, but I have also heard that the rows can come first and it is not an issue.
As long as you do your dead lift first so that you have your maximum strength available for that lift.