You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Agreed - although in the UK we call an 'overhand wide-grip chin-up' a pull-up.runner83 said:Bent-over barbell rows target the mid-back and the lats mostly (secondary - biceps, rear shoulders, lower back, traps).
Overhand wide-grip chin-ups target the lats primarily (secondary - biceps, shoulders).
In my opinion, both should be part of your routine. I do both.
runner83 said:Bent-over barbell rows target the mid-back and the lats mostly (secondary - biceps, rear shoulders, lower back, traps).
Overhand wide-grip chin-ups target the lats primarily (secondary - biceps, shoulders).
In my opinion, both should be part of your routine. I do both.
Since they are both targeting your back, depending on your workout split, I would recommend doing them both on "back day".
For example, my routine on that day consists of (part):
- Deadlifts
- Wide-grip overhand chin-ups
- Bent-over barbell rows
Generally, I think that chin-ups are best to do first, but I have also heard that the rows can come first and it is not an issue.
As long as you do your dead lift first so that you have your maximum strength available for that lift.