She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Agreed - although in the UK we call an 'overhand wide-grip chin-up' a pull-up.runner83 said:Bent-over barbell rows target the mid-back and the lats mostly (secondary - biceps, rear shoulders, lower back, traps).
Overhand wide-grip chin-ups target the lats primarily (secondary - biceps, shoulders).
In my opinion, both should be part of your routine. I do both.
runner83 said:Bent-over barbell rows target the mid-back and the lats mostly (secondary - biceps, rear shoulders, lower back, traps).
Overhand wide-grip chin-ups target the lats primarily (secondary - biceps, shoulders).
In my opinion, both should be part of your routine. I do both.
Since they are both targeting your back, depending on your workout split, I would recommend doing them both on "back day".
For example, my routine on that day consists of (part):
- Deadlifts
- Wide-grip overhand chin-ups
- Bent-over barbell rows
Generally, I think that chin-ups are best to do first, but I have also heard that the rows can come first and it is not an issue.
As long as you do your dead lift first so that you have your maximum strength available for that lift.