Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Agreed - although in the UK we call an 'overhand wide-grip chin-up' a pull-up.runner83 said:Bent-over barbell rows target the mid-back and the lats mostly (secondary - biceps, rear shoulders, lower back, traps).
Overhand wide-grip chin-ups target the lats primarily (secondary - biceps, shoulders).
In my opinion, both should be part of your routine. I do both.
runner83 said:Bent-over barbell rows target the mid-back and the lats mostly (secondary - biceps, rear shoulders, lower back, traps).
Overhand wide-grip chin-ups target the lats primarily (secondary - biceps, shoulders).
In my opinion, both should be part of your routine. I do both.
Since they are both targeting your back, depending on your workout split, I would recommend doing them both on "back day".
For example, my routine on that day consists of (part):
- Deadlifts
- Wide-grip overhand chin-ups
- Bent-over barbell rows
Generally, I think that chin-ups are best to do first, but I have also heard that the rows can come first and it is not an issue.
As long as you do your dead lift first so that you have your maximum strength available for that lift.