"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Banned from Tinder

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Just tried but got an immediate ban message....I think they track the footprint of your device as well it seems.
Yea they do. Same thing happened to me on POF before. POF uses a text verification to start a new account now, and no matter what number I used it wouldn't let me get the text confirmation. What I ended up doing to get around it was using someone else's phone (I didn't tell them what I was doing lol) and then after I got the code sent to their phone, I deleted the message
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Damn the internet is determined to tie u down mure and mire to your real identity with any app u use it seems. Was just reading that a dummy Facebook account can he charged as forget now
 

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good language young man ↑.

to poster, get back up soldier.

Not sure if answered but,

here's how to do it. Do you have an android phone? Download the app talkatone or dingtone, any virtual number app. Then use that with a new email and you're back :). Delete the t app from your phone that has you banned then reinstall.

Don't have a phone? Download Bluestacks an android emulator, or find a different one.

Who knows maybe G-d was helping you. When you install it new you get more matches, or maybe he is leading you somewhere even better than the app.

Don't forget the golden rule of online dating. If you are using it simply to run away from all approaching you will
a. have a super low chance of success and
b. not building any courage as a man, a man needs to take some risks
If you are in a public place, try not to load up any app before you have approached someone you are attracted to, show the world you aren't running away, then you earned the right to try more times online.
 

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I have been banned of Tinder and Hinge, now a days it could be anything from your profile to some bitter chick who is mad at you (I've had this happen)
anyway have any suggestions getting over the banns? usually I wouldn't care but with covid right now OLD is my main source
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I have been banned of Tinder and Hinge, now a days it could be anything from your profile to some bitter chick who is mad at you (I've had this happen)
anyway have any suggestions getting over the banns? usually I wouldn't care but with covid right now OLD is my main source
Get yourself a Google Voice number and use that to access it again. But make sure uninstall and reinstall the Tinder app to wipe out any old data.
 

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I've only dated one Chinese woman, who migrated to the USA, and as soon as she started babbling about being a POC I pumped and dumped her. I can overlook her having communist sympathies, which she clearly did, but get out of my face with that identity politics crap.
Yeah, well done. They had to invent a new term so that more people could join the victim club. Definitely a huge red flag but not the kind that she likes.
 

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I have limited experience with chinese women but it makes me curious. AFAIK western men have high status in Asia which makes it much easier for us.
I've tried tinder setting location in asia and matches i got (with gorgeous women) was crazy compared to europe, confirming this theory. Just the reason that you're "exotic" makes you more attractive and interesting to them i would imagine. If this is not the case then china is different to thailand, phillippines etc.
Status as a foreign man depends a lot on the local prejudices. Sometimes it's in your favour, sometimes not.

Different parts of Asia have totally different attitudes. I think mainland China, generally, is hardly the best place to be.

In China there is a lot of anti western propaganda the people lap up. Taiwan is much more friendly.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Status as a foreign man depends a lot on the local prejudices. Sometimes it's in your favour, sometimes not.

Different parts of Asia have totally different attitudes. I think mainland China, generally, is hardly the best place to be.

In China there is a lot of anti western propaganda the people lap up. Taiwan is much more friendly.
I have been in both places. China is not easy in general but depends on the city. My only tier 1 city that i lived in, Shenzhen was okay as far as women goes. Taipei, the capital of Taiwan, was way better though for me than any in China for me as far as women go.
 

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Okay....no idea how I was banned from this app, but it appears the only way around it is to start up a new Facebook account. Well I tried to start and up but it's been under review for two days. WTF these internet apps are run by liberal snowflakes I realize. This **** is seriously ridiculous. Snowflakes are taking over the world.

Any other way to get on tinder again as it's an invaluable tool here to meet women. No idea what I did to get banned ...my conversations were all PG and no arguments. Is a mystery.
Tinder is 2021s pof. Trash. Actually approach women. Use bumble and cmb or hinge but approach.
 

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Tinder is 2021s pof. Trash. Actually approach women. Use bumble and cmb or hinge but approach.
I'd have to agree it's gone downhill for sure, even when you thought it couldn't go any lower. LOL
However, if you just leave it on in passive mode, you'll occasionally come across some newbies that are new to OLD or just trying it for the first time that can be some hidden gems. But for the most part, this is far and few in between.
 

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I'd have to agree it's gone downhill for sure, even when you thought it couldn't go any lower. LOL
However, if you just leave it on in passive mode, you'll occasionally come across some newbies that are new to OLD or just trying it for the first time that can be some hidden gems. But for the most part, this is far and few in between.
+1

It's a ghost town in London compared to pee covid. I still approach. The ROI is a million times better but I put in absurd amount of time to cultivate the skill set. I never found swiping the best way to source baddies. IMHO and experience, they aren't using swipe apps. I found tinder is low hanging fruit equivalent of pod Craigslist. A lower tier dumpster fire.
 
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