"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Banging a girl on the rebound?

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Today I run into this girl I know that works at my weekend job. We don't work together however and it's been almost 2 months since the last time I've seen her. In the past she's been kind of flirty with me, but she had a bf who I knew so I never took it past a little flirting and teasing her. But today she tells me she broke up with her bf. So I steer the conversation this way (I'm paraphrasing here mind you):

Me: So what have you been up to these day?
Her: Nothing much, just working. Oh and I'm taking classes on the weekend so I don't work weekends anymore.
Me: Cool, so I take it your free on Sat and Sun nights now?
Her: Yeah, well I do a bit of homework but that's about it.
Me: Ok, so how about we hang out sometime.
Her: Sure. Me, (girl I know), and (another girl I know) will probably be going out one night, you could come.
Me: Maybe. Give me your number and I'll give you a call.
Her: xxx-xxx-xxxx
Me: Alright, talk to you later, bye.
Her: bye

I'm not so sure about going partying with her and her 2 friends, but I definitely want to bang this chick.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PectoralisMajor said:
isolate her, dont meet up with her friends unless your friends are there too.
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Yeah, didn't think meeting up with the other 2 girls would be a good idea. I invited her out tmrw night instead. She's chilling at her friends tmrw but will call me when she's done.
 
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Just don't catch feelings for a girl on the rebound :)

A good thing to do is make sure you guys kick it in YOUR element (your houseparty, a place you've been to a lot before. If you can do this even her friends can come too; you can play them off each other to not only build comfort by building rapport with her friends but also to play a little attention-jealousy game :)

If you are hanging out with people SHE knows or going somewhere she's familiar with and doing something she planned, it won't be as easy to control your interaction with her.
 
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He11 tap it,just don't get feelings for her for a LOOOONG time. Make sure she is into YOU, not just into "not being alone"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sodbuster said:
He11 tap it,just don't get feelings for her for a LOOOONG time. Make sure she is into YOU, not just into "not being alone"
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not gonna happen. Already made a move to get her out earlier this week, she flaked on me.
 
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