"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Banging a girl on the rebound?

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Today I run into this girl I know that works at my weekend job. We don't work together however and it's been almost 2 months since the last time I've seen her. In the past she's been kind of flirty with me, but she had a bf who I knew so I never took it past a little flirting and teasing her. But today she tells me she broke up with her bf. So I steer the conversation this way (I'm paraphrasing here mind you):

Me: So what have you been up to these day?
Her: Nothing much, just working. Oh and I'm taking classes on the weekend so I don't work weekends anymore.
Me: Cool, so I take it your free on Sat and Sun nights now?
Her: Yeah, well I do a bit of homework but that's about it.
Me: Ok, so how about we hang out sometime.
Her: Sure. Me, (girl I know), and (another girl I know) will probably be going out one night, you could come.
Me: Maybe. Give me your number and I'll give you a call.
Her: xxx-xxx-xxxx
Me: Alright, talk to you later, bye.
Her: bye

I'm not so sure about going partying with her and her 2 friends, but I definitely want to bang this chick.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PectoralisMajor said:
isolate her, dont meet up with her friends unless your friends are there too.
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Yeah, didn't think meeting up with the other 2 girls would be a good idea. I invited her out tmrw night instead. She's chilling at her friends tmrw but will call me when she's done.
 
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Just don't catch feelings for a girl on the rebound :)

A good thing to do is make sure you guys kick it in YOUR element (your houseparty, a place you've been to a lot before. If you can do this even her friends can come too; you can play them off each other to not only build comfort by building rapport with her friends but also to play a little attention-jealousy game :)

If you are hanging out with people SHE knows or going somewhere she's familiar with and doing something she planned, it won't be as easy to control your interaction with her.
 
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He11 tap it,just don't get feelings for her for a LOOOONG time. Make sure she is into YOU, not just into "not being alone"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sodbuster said:
He11 tap it,just don't get feelings for her for a LOOOONG time. Make sure she is into YOU, not just into "not being alone"
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not gonna happen. Already made a move to get her out earlier this week, she flaked on me.
 
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