niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
What is the pros and cons of leaving the ''ball'' in her court?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ball in her court
- Thread starter niceguytoalphamale
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
logicallefty
Moderator
Very easy one. You know exactly where you stand.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
uhh...who cares?
If she's chasing you, it's undeniable.
None of this silly tennis sh!t.
You really want to wait around, for her to hit the ball or not?
If she's chasing you, it's undeniable.
None of this silly tennis sh!t.
You really want to wait around, for her to hit the ball or not?
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user43770
Guest
When you first meet?
The pros: you never have to actually get to know this b1tch. You don't have to listen to her complain, talk about her mother, her co-workers, sh1t she wants to buy...
The cons: you probably won't ever have sex with her.
You have to give them attention early on in order to copulate; you have to win them over. This is the man's duty per evolution.
Every male animal has to do it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.