niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
What is the pros and cons of leaving the ''ball'' in her court?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ball in her court
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
logicallefty
Moderator
Very easy one. You know exactly where you stand.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
uhh...who cares?
If she's chasing you, it's undeniable.
None of this silly tennis sh!t.
You really want to wait around, for her to hit the ball or not?
If she's chasing you, it's undeniable.
None of this silly tennis sh!t.
You really want to wait around, for her to hit the ball or not?
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user43770
Guest
When you first meet?
The pros: you never have to actually get to know this b1tch. You don't have to listen to her complain, talk about her mother, her co-workers, sh1t she wants to buy...
The cons: you probably won't ever have sex with her.
You have to give them attention early on in order to copulate; you have to win them over. This is the man's duty per evolution.
Every male animal has to do it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.