niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
What is the pros and cons of leaving the ''ball'' in her court?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ball in her court
- Thread starter niceguytoalphamale
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
logicallefty
Moderator
Very easy one. You know exactly where you stand.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
uhh...who cares?
If she's chasing you, it's undeniable.
None of this silly tennis sh!t.
You really want to wait around, for her to hit the ball or not?
If she's chasing you, it's undeniable.
None of this silly tennis sh!t.
You really want to wait around, for her to hit the ball or not?
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user43770
Guest
When you first meet?
The pros: you never have to actually get to know this b1tch. You don't have to listen to her complain, talk about her mother, her co-workers, sh1t she wants to buy...
The cons: you probably won't ever have sex with her.
You have to give them attention early on in order to copulate; you have to win them over. This is the man's duty per evolution.
Every male animal has to do it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.