"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Balancing Weight?!

AtomicDog

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In the past I've been way down the fat road and way down the skinny one too.

My arms are skinny so I feel that I should put on more weight.

But I'm developing a beer belly and a bit if u kno what i mean!! Is there any way to steadily gain weight while keeping everything in proportion? I just want thicker arms. Other than that, I look good and dont want to get any fatter.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lift. Heavy. Find the search button for this forum. Use it.

Your arms won't get thicker unless the rest of you does. Squat, deadlift, bench. In that order of importance. Your arms will keep up.
 

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Just like throttle said, focus on the big boys. SQUAT, deadlift, benchpress, you can even throw in some bent over rows for your biceps and back, and military press for your shoulders. As soon as you start a good routine and stick with it, than you shouldn't gain much fat. Your body will kick into anabolic mode and start building muscle to cope with the extra stress. Don't be one of those wannabe guys in the gym doing preacher curls all day to get big arms. Do some research on this site and everywhere else. Google is a very powerful tool.

Good luck buddy
 

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donjuanjovi said:
Don't be one of those wannabe guys in the gym doing preacher curls all day to get big arms.
been there, done that, the t-shirt doesn't fit anymore after serious squats & deadlifts... :rockon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AtomicDog said:
Hey btw,

Was net surfing the other day and found a GREAT resource:

http://www.exrx.net/Exercise.html

Looks alright to me

I do a lot of pushups & situps, maybe need to get into squats...
That's a great site! I used it as a reference for exercises until I learned them all, or most of them.
Definately get into squats! If your goal is to gain size and strength the squat is what you want!
 
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