"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Balancing Weight?!

AtomicDog

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In the past I've been way down the fat road and way down the skinny one too.

My arms are skinny so I feel that I should put on more weight.

But I'm developing a beer belly and a bit if u kno what i mean!! Is there any way to steadily gain weight while keeping everything in proportion? I just want thicker arms. Other than that, I look good and dont want to get any fatter.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lift. Heavy. Find the search button for this forum. Use it.

Your arms won't get thicker unless the rest of you does. Squat, deadlift, bench. In that order of importance. Your arms will keep up.
 

donjuanjovi

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Just like throttle said, focus on the big boys. SQUAT, deadlift, benchpress, you can even throw in some bent over rows for your biceps and back, and military press for your shoulders. As soon as you start a good routine and stick with it, than you shouldn't gain much fat. Your body will kick into anabolic mode and start building muscle to cope with the extra stress. Don't be one of those wannabe guys in the gym doing preacher curls all day to get big arms. Do some research on this site and everywhere else. Google is a very powerful tool.

Good luck buddy
 

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donjuanjovi said:
Don't be one of those wannabe guys in the gym doing preacher curls all day to get big arms.
been there, done that, the t-shirt doesn't fit anymore after serious squats & deadlifts... :rockon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AtomicDog said:
Hey btw,

Was net surfing the other day and found a GREAT resource:

http://www.exrx.net/Exercise.html

Looks alright to me

I do a lot of pushups & situps, maybe need to get into squats...
That's a great site! I used it as a reference for exercises until I learned them all, or most of them.
Definately get into squats! If your goal is to gain size and strength the squat is what you want!
 
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