"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Balancing Weight?!

AtomicDog

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In the past I've been way down the fat road and way down the skinny one too.

My arms are skinny so I feel that I should put on more weight.

But I'm developing a beer belly and a bit if u kno what i mean!! Is there any way to steadily gain weight while keeping everything in proportion? I just want thicker arms. Other than that, I look good and dont want to get any fatter.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Throttle

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Lift. Heavy. Find the search button for this forum. Use it.

Your arms won't get thicker unless the rest of you does. Squat, deadlift, bench. In that order of importance. Your arms will keep up.
 

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Just like throttle said, focus on the big boys. SQUAT, deadlift, benchpress, you can even throw in some bent over rows for your biceps and back, and military press for your shoulders. As soon as you start a good routine and stick with it, than you shouldn't gain much fat. Your body will kick into anabolic mode and start building muscle to cope with the extra stress. Don't be one of those wannabe guys in the gym doing preacher curls all day to get big arms. Do some research on this site and everywhere else. Google is a very powerful tool.

Good luck buddy
 

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donjuanjovi said:
Don't be one of those wannabe guys in the gym doing preacher curls all day to get big arms.
been there, done that, the t-shirt doesn't fit anymore after serious squats & deadlifts... :rockon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AtomicDog said:
Hey btw,

Was net surfing the other day and found a GREAT resource:

http://www.exrx.net/Exercise.html

Looks alright to me

I do a lot of pushups & situps, maybe need to get into squats...
That's a great site! I used it as a reference for exercises until I learned them all, or most of them.
Definately get into squats! If your goal is to gain size and strength the squat is what you want!
 
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