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no offense, but getting girls to dress you is lame.
maybe, I am just blessed with a good dress sense, but i wouldn't let someone else decide what i was gonna wear.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
baggy clothes cool?
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maybe, I am just blessed with a good dress sense, but i wouldn't let someone else decide what i was gonna wear.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Black_Italian
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Excuse me were did i say shorts stop you from getting girls. Im talking about style if you want to have style and class you stay away from shorts/fluro colours ect.
Girls for the most part (the girls I want to attract anyway) are somewhat more attracted to classier guys so in a sense if you dress classier i.e. no shorts it would help your game.
The majority of attractive successful girls go for guys with class so if these are the girls you are planning to attract then follow my rules. Think James Bond.
Classier clothes help your game end of story.
Girls for the most part (the girls I want to attract anyway) are somewhat more attracted to classier guys so in a sense if you dress classier i.e. no shorts it would help your game.
The majority of attractive successful girls go for guys with class so if these are the girls you are planning to attract then follow my rules. Think James Bond.
Classier clothes help your game end of story.
DJ_in_making
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ok, i get ya, it sounded like you were saying to be successful, you must not wear shorts around girls at all...Originally posted by Black_Italian
Excuse me were did i say shorts stop you from getting girls. Im talking about style if you want to have style and class you stay away from shorts/fluro colours ect.
Girls for the most part (the girls I want to attract anyway) are somewhat more attracted to classier guys so in a sense if you dress classier i.e. no shorts it would help your game.
The majority of attractive successful girls go for guys with class so if these are the girls you are planning to attract then follow my rules. Think James Bond.
Classier clothes help your game end of story.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Good.
gimmeyofonenumba
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hmm... this has got me thinking. I have a real wierd sense of style. Sometimes i dress with black jean shorts and a brown shirt with a band name on it, thats what i usually wear to school, now when i go out i usually wear a plain white/blue/ shirt( i have some collared, and some are just t shirts) i feel comfortable in it, and sure as hell feel confident. But iam not too succesfull. Should i bother chaning?
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dress more stylish itl help.
I can go for days about all this but personally, I dispise all those Tall Tee wearing dudes just 'cos there was a song about it and stuff
whatever happens - do not buy a white tee for $1.75
Common said it's best on BE - "Rappers and hoopers, we strive to be like"
I hate when people look up to Rappers and athletes and do what "they" wear.
just 'cos Lil' Jon is wearing a jersey down to his ankles and is considered "cool rapper" doesn't mean you will look just as "cool" as him
get your own style, LOOK at the Mirror before you leave and turn off the Hip-Hop shows, that's something to listen to, not watch
whatever happens - do not buy a white tee for $1.75
Common said it's best on BE - "Rappers and hoopers, we strive to be like"
I hate when people look up to Rappers and athletes and do what "they" wear.
just 'cos Lil' Jon is wearing a jersey down to his ankles and is considered "cool rapper" doesn't mean you will look just as "cool" as him
get your own style, LOOK at the Mirror before you leave and turn off the Hip-Hop shows, that's something to listen to, not watch