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no offense, but getting girls to dress you is lame.
maybe, I am just blessed with a good dress sense, but i wouldn't let someone else decide what i was gonna wear.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
baggy clothes cool?
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maybe, I am just blessed with a good dress sense, but i wouldn't let someone else decide what i was gonna wear.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
HalfAddict
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Black_Italian
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Excuse me were did i say shorts stop you from getting girls. Im talking about style if you want to have style and class you stay away from shorts/fluro colours ect.
Girls for the most part (the girls I want to attract anyway) are somewhat more attracted to classier guys so in a sense if you dress classier i.e. no shorts it would help your game.
The majority of attractive successful girls go for guys with class so if these are the girls you are planning to attract then follow my rules. Think James Bond.
Classier clothes help your game end of story.
Girls for the most part (the girls I want to attract anyway) are somewhat more attracted to classier guys so in a sense if you dress classier i.e. no shorts it would help your game.
The majority of attractive successful girls go for guys with class so if these are the girls you are planning to attract then follow my rules. Think James Bond.
Classier clothes help your game end of story.
DJ_in_making
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ok, i get ya, it sounded like you were saying to be successful, you must not wear shorts around girls at all...Originally posted by Black_Italian
Excuse me were did i say shorts stop you from getting girls. Im talking about style if you want to have style and class you stay away from shorts/fluro colours ect.
Girls for the most part (the girls I want to attract anyway) are somewhat more attracted to classier guys so in a sense if you dress classier i.e. no shorts it would help your game.
The majority of attractive successful girls go for guys with class so if these are the girls you are planning to attract then follow my rules. Think James Bond.
Classier clothes help your game end of story.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Good.
gimmeyofonenumba
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hmm... this has got me thinking. I have a real wierd sense of style. Sometimes i dress with black jean shorts and a brown shirt with a band name on it, thats what i usually wear to school, now when i go out i usually wear a plain white/blue/ shirt( i have some collared, and some are just t shirts) i feel comfortable in it, and sure as hell feel confident. But iam not too succesfull. Should i bother chaning?
Black_Italian
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dress more stylish itl help.
I can go for days about all this but personally, I dispise all those Tall Tee wearing dudes just 'cos there was a song about it and stuff
whatever happens - do not buy a white tee for $1.75
Common said it's best on BE - "Rappers and hoopers, we strive to be like"
I hate when people look up to Rappers and athletes and do what "they" wear.
just 'cos Lil' Jon is wearing a jersey down to his ankles and is considered "cool rapper" doesn't mean you will look just as "cool" as him
get your own style, LOOK at the Mirror before you leave and turn off the Hip-Hop shows, that's something to listen to, not watch
whatever happens - do not buy a white tee for $1.75
Common said it's best on BE - "Rappers and hoopers, we strive to be like"
I hate when people look up to Rappers and athletes and do what "they" wear.
just 'cos Lil' Jon is wearing a jersey down to his ankles and is considered "cool rapper" doesn't mean you will look just as "cool" as him
get your own style, LOOK at the Mirror before you leave and turn off the Hip-Hop shows, that's something to listen to, not watch